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So about month ago me and my ex stopped talking, before we stopped talking we agreed on a break from talking, keep in mind we were together for about 2 years and texted everyday but we broke up about 5 months ago but we continued to talk everyday, so after we agreed to have a break from eachother I texted her just to try to patch things up because she is my first and only love and im hers. When I texted her she was very dry so she ended up telling me she has a boyfriend(this was about a month ago), this just ripped my heart out, so everyday I dream or wake up thinking of her, today I went on Facebook and a mutal friend posted a video of my ex and her boyfriend kissing and and laying together. I can't get over her even if I try, I just can't I pray and pray everyday for another chance but i just seem to hurt everyday. I don't know what's the point in living , I just can't be happy, I won't harm myself but I seem to just get the thought to becus se what's the point when I just hurt every single day of my life even if I pray... It hurts seeing someone you love love someone else, I don't even know what's the point in living anymore..

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I'm so sorry you're going through this. First breakups are just so tough.

 

My best advice is to do what you can to avoid seeing any updates on her. Do your friends know how much you're struggling? If so, it would be wise to tell them how you feel and avoid any unnecessary hurt from social media.

 

The main thing to remember is that you're still so young and have plenty more love to come your way yet. You've already gotten off the mark, so you're way in front of many in terms of knowing how to talk to girls - you've got quite the advantage.

 

That said, it's probably good to take some time to focus on school and mates and fun. It will get better in time. I promise.

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I'm so sorry you're going through this. First breakups are just so tough.

 

My best advice is to do what you can to avoid seeing any updates on her. Do your friends know how much you're struggling? If so, it would be wise to tell them how you feel and avoid any unnecessary hurt from social media.

 

The main thing to remember is that you're still so young and have plenty more love to come your way yet. You've already gotten off the mark, so you're way in front of many in terms of knowing how to talk to girls - you've got quite the advantage.

 

That said, it's probably good to take some time to focus on school and mates and fun. It will get better in time. I promise.

I really just keep everything to myself, but it's hard to act like nothing is wrong. This just really test my faith. I just wonder how can someone hurt me so much and then just be happy while leaving me heart broken; she is my first love, we talked about getting married, I know I'm only 16 but I really thought we were ?

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