daisyzee Posted October 10, 2016 Posted October 10, 2016 Heys guys so if yall have read my last post yall would know all that went down and how the cheating ocurred and how to this day we have been in contact. Recently weve been snapchating back and forth , we have a streak but ive come to the conclusion that if i want to move on this can no longer continue and although i may be wrong hes seems he has forgotten about what we had and he has moved on and is into his new girlfriend. Im guessing the first step is to leave him on open and stop the snapchating . Im just not too sure on how I can forget and get over him and the hardest thing is i just know within atleast a week or two he'll contact me again whether through snapchat or hell randomly call me or around school but hey it could be different this time since he has a gf maybe this time he wont and its easier said than done because honestly everytime he does come back i get a little excited and full of hope and believe that we might be able to work something out again and deep down a part of me will always hold on to that but if he does contact me again what am i to do and what can i do to make it different this time and try to move on?
ExpatInItaly Posted October 10, 2016 Posted October 10, 2016 I agree with JewelD. You need to block him. Someone who is capable of cheating isn't in love with you and you don't need them in your life, not now and not ever.
Kelley Posted October 10, 2016 Posted October 10, 2016 I was in a similar situation, I have blocked my ex on everything. If you want to move on that's what you have to do. It hurts like hell, but if you want to move on and find someone that loves and respects you in the future, you have to go through the pain. Keeping in contact with him just holds you back. He has moved on and gets the luxury of chatting to you whenever he likes. He doesn't even deserve your time, don't worry about his feelings he has a girlfriend he will be fine!
Toodaloo Posted October 10, 2016 Posted October 10, 2016 Daisy your ex cheated because he has absolutely NO respect or care for you and now you are providing entertainment for him and attention despite all he has done? You don't need to go no contact. You need to grow some self worth and boundaries. Yes of course go no contact! Just ignore him! So what if he texts. So what if he sends you some stupid picture on snap chat. Who cares? It certainly shouldn't be you! And when he carries on just carry on ignoring him!
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