NSR125 Posted October 9, 2016 Posted October 9, 2016 Hello, Recently I started a masters course which is pretty stressful, I never intended on getting involved with anyone for the duration but would never close the door completely for the right person. Long story short there's a girl who I was mildly attracted to in the class and on our first class party she came on to me quite strong. I ended up spending the night with her but didn't do anything as she told me that she didn't want me thinking she was easy to get with. She told me she liked me from the moment she saw me and was heavy in conversation. Afterwards I backed off a lot I didn't want to lead her on any further when I knew she liked me a lot more than I did her. After a few days she text me to say that she needed to concentrate 100% on the course and could we just be friends. Problem is that Im still interested but not for anything serious at the moment but id b open to the option just not too soon. Now I think for her too come on strong and then respond to my distance with distance of her own means that she likes me but thinks im not interested. My question is should I get involved or pursue her at all or would it be less trouble to just leave it alone?
smackie9 Posted October 9, 2016 Posted October 9, 2016 Leave it alone because she wants something serious and you don't. If she wanted FWB she would have slept with you that night. She made it pretty clear what she wants. She backed off knowing full well you are not looking for the same thing.
preraph Posted October 9, 2016 Posted October 9, 2016 You're both too busy for this. You can generally assume that most women are wanting something more serious than most men are at any given time. She says she's too busy and you say you are. Why not just concentrate on your studies.
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