Author smile95 Posted July 13, 2005 Author Posted July 13, 2005 hey I cannot send you a private message and not sure I want the world to know my medical history. SOrry.
JS17 Posted July 14, 2005 Posted July 14, 2005 theone44, you're very judgemental. why are you so tough on women? NOBODY deserves to be treated badly. The "bad" guys that women go back to are the ones that treat you like gold then turn into jerks once you've fallen for them. At this point the woman is already attached to the man and many times hopes that the "good" guy will come back. The real answer as to why women go back to men who treat them badly is attachment and excitement.
mustangsally Posted July 15, 2005 Posted July 15, 2005 its really hard to let go of someone you put so much of yourself into. Usually women are in love with the man that was there prior...and now that he's gone, they're looking for him to come back.
what456 Posted July 15, 2005 Posted July 15, 2005 Well, I am kind of in the same position as Beth. however, i will be seeing him next week at a wedding. i am so scared that i don't know what to do. One thing is for sure, i never want to get back with him. he was so mean to me and wanted me for only sex!! and i am a virgin! i tried to contact him because i felt bad for some of the things i said in our last fight. i apologized and no response! but i knew he wasn't going to respond. Finally, i found out that he was going to be at a wedding i was going to and we will be doing things together..so i tried to contact him to settle some issues before i see him at the wedding. still, no response..i contacted him twice i think. i wanted us to be civil and avoid that awkward feeling...but he didnt give me that satisfaction. i also had many questions to ask him...why this ? why that? and he knew it...and i guess he didn't want to be confronted with the situation. lastly, i sent him an email and wrote everything..how i felt. i don't care if he responds back but i got everything out and that was my closure. he did me WRONG and i had to tell him. how should i act when i see him?
Author smile95 Posted July 15, 2005 Author Posted July 15, 2005 wow sounds familiar! When is the wedding? Why guys ignore, I will never know? Iwould just ignore him at the wedding...you did all you could. Look your best that night and make him regret everything!!!!!!!!!!
This_Too_Shall_Pass Posted July 15, 2005 Posted July 15, 2005 i also had many questions to ask him...why this ? why that? and he knew it...and i guess he didn't want to be confronted with the situation.... he did me WRONG and i had to tell him. Exact same thing that went on (and still does) in my mind. how should i act when i see him? Like he doesn't exist. If I was in your place, that's what I would've done. I actually wish I can have an "encounter" with him, just to be able to show him that I couldn't care less. I'd be more interested in a polyp growing on the ocean bed than in him. Of course, he'll also ignore you completely at the wedding. It will almost be a contest of "who does the best job of ignoring!" Well, the one way you can win is by making it seem effortless on your side. Just be your natural self, and give as much importance to him as you would to the many people present at the wedding who you don't know. You'll carry it off with grace and dignity, whereas he'll be trying too hard to "ignore" you.
what456 Posted July 18, 2005 Posted July 18, 2005 Thanks Guys! i really appreciate your responses. The wedding is this friday and sunday. i will be seeing him two days. i was afraid at first but now i think i am ok. i feel sooo stupid now but like beth said i did all i could. this_to_shall_pass...what's your story?
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