he left ..

[confusedlove89]

I have been dealing with this guy for a year on and off I really love him but I am not sure why because the way he treats me so disrespectful, He got married to another woman while we were trying to repair our broken relationship I know he married her but he wont admit to me from his mouth, There were to many other girls he couldnt hide it I guess he thought I was going to play stupid but that is not my lifestyle and I am the type of person that once I go off everything changes until I see change in other person, He would pretend to care and things of that nature, but it our situation would always end up with us not speaking for a few days or weeks, but he would always come back, We werent speaking for six months and he moved to Texas and didnt tell me of course, I found out through lurking on FB (petty i know ) one day he video called me and thats when he told me he was gone and lied and said he didnt know he was leaving until he had to, we fell off again shortly after that, The girl he married had a baby and I confronted him and then we stopped speaking six months went by when all of sudden one day he texted my phone, I didnt reconginze the number but I still replied, It was him I instinaly felt so good inside I felt the love and happiness i felt in the beinging, we talked and talked and talked, Then he hit me with the do you love me I never lie when it comes to afrairs of the heart, So I said yes, after that it was all she wrote video calls and text messages then one day he lied he said "you will be my wife if you do everything I tell you to" I thought to myself how you already have a wife, I got angry and changed..Hes a truck driver to on the road he has a lot of time but as soon as he got back to texas, he became hard to contact I became furious, thats when the heartbroken texts started you know "you never loved me,you never cared" so on so fourth, We worked through it tho..long story short he came back to our home state and came to visit me I was excited af he comes to my house and hes rude as heck, telling me not to touch him, telling me he dsnt like me, ex ALL OF THIS ON MY HOME

he called me a name and i pushed him mind you hes way bigger than me so it didnt effect him just me so I laughed, he got up and walked out of my house and texted me "never say anything to me again I hate you" then blocked my number and blocked me on video chat, i am hurt and confused I love him but he dsnt love me and I am tired of hurting I am tired of proving myself to him when he hasnt shown me anything..I have to stop loving him but I dont want to I am so ashamed.. Any Advice

[JewelD]

Just cut him off. You don't need a partner who is disrespectful and treats you like crap. Plus, he's probably still married to that woman and that's probably his child she gave birth to. You can do better than that.

[preraph]

Your standards for what you find acceptable are way too low, and as long as they are, you will keep attracting bad people who don't respect you -- because you have done absolutely nothing to earn respect here. You rewarded this guy over and over for lying and cheating and treating you like you were stupid. You've got to hold out for better treatment. This is a self-esteem issue that you ought to explore with a therapist sometime and try to change and get some self-respect. Good luck.

[LostOnes05]

Advice: Stop hitting the snooze button and wake up.

[Wanderer J]

I am ashamed that men like this exist in the first place. He does not respect the women in his life. I would have to agree with the other posters. Ditch him. He's not worth your time or hurt.