wombat31 Posted October 7, 2016 Posted October 7, 2016 So theres this girl I met on Tinder a couple weeks ago and we really hit it off at least conversation wise. Then a little later I realized she was in one of my classes at college so we started to talk more and eventually I asked her if she wanted to go to a museum or two. She said yes and we had a delightful time actually. Then I walked her home after getting off the bus, (though she seemed surprised I didn't take it home because I take the bus home; more on that later) and our goodbye was a little....awkward I guess? When we stopped at her place she oddly went in for like a fist bump and I was sorta like "I can do hugs haha, hugs are cool". Then she hugged me and went inside her house. No kiss, but I figured the moment was kinda awkward to do so which she admitted it was sorta awkward going in for the fist bump. So here's my problem, is she more interested in being my friend? I know some folks use Tinder just to find folks to talk to but I'm getting alot of conflicting messages. On the one hand, her tinder profile said that she "Wasnt interested in hookups tbh" and in my experience "hook up" has had two meanings: Just sex or dating. I suppose its who you talk to. Nevertheless I took it as the first one, she didnt want to just have sex, and I went ahead and asked 'I'd really like to go out with you sometime, would you like to go out to the museum this day?'. I specifically said "go out" to imply I was interested in dating her and I figured that would let her know. Flash forward to today, where I'm not too sure how she feels about me so I try to make it as apparent as possible by asking her out to dinner next Saturday. I figured this would be a big enough hint and she'll say either yes or no. She said that would be cool and said (after I had also corrected and apologized for my errors in another text): "no problem my dude. it should work!!!!" Ahhhh "My dude" XD ok maybe I'm reading to much into it but you see my point overall here. If she thinks its just friends, thats fine I just want to know before awkwardly trying to kiss her the night of the dinner and ruining that friendship. Shes a pretty cool person and I'd hate to lose that on top of being rejected. How should I approach this?
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