What would you do?

[Bialy]

Weird issue. Last week, my ex sent me an email telling me that he was "sorry for the abrupt cutoff." He also said the following:

 

"Be careful about what you do and say in your workplace. I was confronted with things you said over the phone and email while at work that I know had to have come from you. I care about you and don't want your career prospects limited due to interaction with me. Someone there is very close to [his partner] and listening to your conversations and possibly reading your emails and reporting back. Be very, very careful."

 

I had a very good friend and her husband who is in law enforcement read the email and they said that he appears to be the subject of manipulation by his fiancée, based on the email. My mother also came to be same conclusion as did another good friend.

 

I wasn't going to respond at all. I'm now wondering what the Love-Shack Coping community thinks about this.

 

Would you respond to say, that is 110% false and absurd.

[Kelley]

Would he believe you if you went back and explained it was absurd? I believe he will be too wrapped up in his Fiance for it to even register. Do you have to reply? What does your 'gut' say? Looking from the outside in, I would take a step back and not reply. He made his bed .....