ItsAllConfusing Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 (edited) *Desperate So I met this guy online. We met and yes hooked up on the first night. I wanted it. It isn't something I've ever done before. I didn't hear from him after that night so I messaged him 4 days later to see if he was free.( I messaged him because I thought he was embarrassed by his sexual performance.) He wasn't sure but would let me know by the end of the week. Not liking that reply i told him it was ok maybe another time. He texts me 3 days later asking if I was free I told him I wasn't and I asked him if he'd be free the following week. Almost 5 days later and still no response. I just want the intimacy. I'm not lookin for a relationship but I could really use some intimacy this weekend (Friday). Should I text him again or let it go? The longest he's ever taken to respond was 1.5 days. I need to plan things in advance because I have 1 child who I need to find a sitter for. He's child free and pursuing a post baccalaureate degree, so he's a bit busy. Your answers will determine what I do tonight. Edited October 5, 2016 by ItsAllConfusing
hippychick3 Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 You will look desperate. Don't text him. Don't chase guys...which is what you're doing with this guy. He hasn't shown enough interest in you for you to even give him the time of day right now. Look for someone who wants to pursue you and initiates contact with you. 1
Author ItsAllConfusing Posted October 5, 2016 Author Posted October 5, 2016 If he texts me on Friday should I go?
hippychick3 Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 If he texts me on Friday should I go? If he texts you on Friday to meet on Friday, you'd be a booty calll. He's not calling you because he's waiting for (or already has) a better option. Find someone who chooses you as his first option every time. 3
Author ItsAllConfusing Posted October 5, 2016 Author Posted October 5, 2016 You're right. He's actually a month out of a relationship wish I knew that before sleeping with him. So I'll let it go.
ExpatInItaly Posted October 6, 2016 Posted October 6, 2016 No, don't text him again. He clearly isn't very interested and likely you're not the only one he's got in his roster. If you are looking for something more than a f-buddy, this guy isn't it.
Author ItsAllConfusing Posted October 10, 2016 Author Posted October 10, 2016 If he texts you on Friday to meet on Friday, you'd be a booty calll. He's not calling you because he's waiting for (or already has) a better option. Find someone who chooses you as his first option every time. Update, he did text me on Friday to ask if I was free and I told him that I wasn't and that I was hoping to meet tonight but that he never got back to me. I then told him to text me in advance when/if he can meet. He never responded to that text. I suspect he will do the same thing when next Friday comes around but you know what, I blocked him. I was honestly hoping for some type of FWB relationship but if he can't even respond regularly forget it. I don't understand him.
ChickiePops Posted October 10, 2016 Posted October 10, 2016 Update, he did text me on Friday to ask if I was free and I told him that I wasn't and that I was hoping to meet tonight but that he never got back to me. I then told him to text me in advance when/if he can meet. He never responded to that text. I suspect he will do the same thing when next Friday comes around but you know what, I blocked him. I was honestly hoping for some type of FWB relationship but if he can't even respond regularly forget it. I don't understand him. You don't? He was horny on Friday so he texted you. Glad you blocked him! If you're just looking for a FWB you can find a better one.
ExpatInItaly Posted October 10, 2016 Posted October 10, 2016 Update, he did text me on Friday to ask if I was free and I told him that I wasn't and that I was hoping to meet tonight but that he never got back to me. I then told him to text me in advance when/if he can meet. He never responded to that text. I suspect he will do the same thing when next Friday comes around but you know what, I blocked him. I was honestly hoping for some type of FWB relationship but if he can't even respond regularly forget it. I don't understand him. It's actually quite simple - he is looking for a booty call, not a date or a FWB.
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