Chrys Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 (edited) We are not in a relationship, told me she likes me and wants a relationship but always rejected me kissing her or anything really, and then i found out she made out with one of her friends, i got mad because she always rejects me but keeps telling me all that stuff like she likes me and wants to be with me and then she ends up with some random guy. I wasn't angry at the fact she ended up with him, i was angry at the fact that i always get rejected and it makes me think she is leading me on. We talk all the time, especially since college started and she said she's trying to fall in love with me now that she sees me everyday. She told me that after that argument things are awkward now and she will need some time to return to things being like they used to be, and wants peace, meaning she won't contact me, and isn't contacting me, 2 days have passed already. Did i blew it 100% or do i just give her space? Edited October 5, 2016 by Chrys
NTV Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 Ya find a different chick to focus on and date a third. You're in college man! Things are no longer transparent. Games abound. This is where you learn how to play for real. Enjoy life and forget she exists for a month. When that month has passed you'll either play that game back or be beyond her. But if you don't like that advice.... try the confusion. You're too direct. She thinks she is playing cat and mouse and she is the cat.
angel.eyes Posted October 6, 2016 Posted October 6, 2016 You're in the friend zone. She likes having you as a friend, but as she told you..."I'm trying to love you." In other words, she doesn't love you, and try as hard as she can, she hasn't been able to develop those types of feelings for you. You can either be her friend and watch her continue to date/kiss/whatever other guys that she has crushes on...or...you can move on and find someone who likes you back as a dating option.
DKT3 Posted October 6, 2016 Posted October 6, 2016 Move on bro, funny thing, once you pull away she will most likely start chasing you. Wont make her a better prospect as a girlfriend/wife. She is clearly attempting to have you around as her just in case guy.
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