JiltedJane Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 (edited) So I went out on a date with this guy I met online and we really hit it off. We didn't know last names going into the date, but told we each other during it. The next day I googled him and the first thing that popped up was his picture on the STD registry!! Complete with a description of him being a con artist, etc. I casually asked him if hes been tested recently and he said yes and he was clean. I didn't tell him I found this site though. Is stdregistry.com a legit thing? Regardless, how the hell do I bring up seeing it without looking like a stalker or upsetting him? Edited October 5, 2016 by JiltedJane
No_Go Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 Legit or not, don't bother. It is not worth it the risk after ONE date. So I went out on a date with this guy I met online and we really hit it off. We didn't know last names going into the date, but told we each other during it. The next day I googled him and the first thing that popped up was his picture on the STD registry!! Complete with a description of him being a con artist, etc. I casually asked him if hes been tested recently and he said yes and he was clean. I didn't tell him I found this site though. Is stdregistry.com a legit thing? Regardless, how the hell do I bring up seeing it without looking like a stalker or upsetting him? 3
Toodaloo Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 Legit or not, don't bother. It is not worth it the risk after ONE date. Agreed. And if he asks why you don't want to see him again be honest and tell him that regardless its either a. he has std's and is a con artist or b. he has really piddled off the wrong girl and done some pretty horrific things for them to get that angry and inventive. Either way you do not want to get involved.
VeveCakes Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 Did it say what STD? Use a condom..could be a jaded ex
Author JiltedJane Posted October 5, 2016 Author Posted October 5, 2016 it says he has several including herpes.......
VeveCakes Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 it says he has several including herpes....... mmm that would make me pass. Just ask him....say where you saw it. Poor guy should know.
jen1447 Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 It looks like stdregistry.com is just a private site where ppl can submit 'reports' on others (which can be motivated by anything), not some official repository. There's no actual legit STD registry like a sex offender registry or anything like that, as not only is sexual health history not public information, it's protected by HIPAA laws like other personal health info. (In the US anyway.) All that said, I agree I wouldn't bother. At the very least someone was pissed enough at him to go to the trouble of smearing him publicly, and it'd be a hard road ever getting to the bottom of that. Don't bother.
Author JiltedJane Posted October 5, 2016 Author Posted October 5, 2016 LOL, so I asked if he's ever googled himself. And he immediately brought up the STD site. Claims its a bitter ex. FML
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