Sgthaytham Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 I met this girl on a night out 2 weeks ago. She's Iranian and rather more "exotic" than I usually go for. We ended up at hers but as soon as we were hitting the high gears I felt some restraint from her so we didn't have sex - no biggie. Next morning (more like afternoon) she was showing some clear signs she wanted to spend a lot of time with me. We woke up at 3pm (!!). Her head was resting on my chest and as she woke up she gave me a quick kiss. At 6 pm I told her I had to go but she asked whether I could show her the way to this supermarket. I've been trying to approach dating in a different way recently. I want to take things slow and be centered. We've texted a total of 2 times so far... just to make dates. Is this considered "normal"/"okay"? I've also kept it at one date a week.
smackie9 Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 If you like her have more dates. Secondly if sex is not on the table, go home and sleep in your own bed. 1
Miss Peach Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 If you like her continue having more dates with her. I will add that for a lot of women we judge guys not just on dates but also in between dates. No one wants to feel smothered. At the same time, if you are acting like a ghost she may question whether you are into her. The reason I point this out if my XBF did that. He only called me for dates. We met every week. He was silent in between. I kept dating him as he seemed like a good guy in every other way. But it did have me question his intentions as most guys out there will keep in touch with a woman they like. Since I was so unsure I came really close to stopping seeing him. I also waited longer than I really wanted to to have sex with him because I couldn't tell if he was serious or not. Even my guy friends were shocked when we got together because the signs were pointing to he wasn't into me enough. Now my XBF was following some stupid 'don't look too eager' advice. But he never realized I would have solidified things sooner had I known for sure he wasn't a player because I did like him. In the end I wound up dumping him over his immature way of (not) communicating. 1
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