kaisergal Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 Found out the guy I was casually seeing has a gf who sent me a very ****** message. Saying how he chucked me out during crap sex a few times and that I'm ugly why I can't get a bf. He's gone with me 12 times but it's given me a complex as he never finishes despite me not having a prob with anyone else. Really made me feel not great. In past he's said I'm good in bed but he never finishes but does drink a lot too
Toodaloo Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 Oh wow. 1. Did you know about his girlfriend? If so well you deserve the abuse. If not then perhaps you would be better off pointing out to her that while you were just using him for sex its a poor show when a guy pretends to be single, and that as your standards are higher than that, even for what is effectively a walking vibrator substitute he will not be seeing you again and thanks for the heads up. 2. Some guys take a while to relax, some have erectile problems, some as you say drink till they droop. Not your penis so not your problem. He got caught out and is making you out to be the baddie here. Its not you at all. He is just a weasel tried to squirm out of it. Mean while his girlfriend is stupid enough to fall for it. Hope this solves the issue. Chin up chook.
Gaeta Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 Saying how he chucked me out during crap sex a few times Is it true? 1
Author kaisergal Posted October 4, 2016 Author Posted October 4, 2016 Oh wow. 1. Did you know about his girlfriend? If so well you deserve the abuse. If not then perhaps you would be better off pointing out to her that while you were just using him for sex its a poor show when a guy pretends to be single, and that as your standards are higher than that, even for what is effectively a walking vibrator substitute he will not be seeing you again and thanks for the heads up. 2. Some guys take a while to relax, some have erectile problems, some as you say drink till they droop. Not your penis so not your problem. He got caught out and is making you out to be the baddie here. Its not you at all. He is just a weasel tried to squirm out of it. Mean while his girlfriend is stupid enough to fall for it. Hope this solves the issue. Chin up chook. Not good to be told you're crap at sex when he's gone with me quite a few times!
Zahara Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 Well, from your post in August, you knew he had a girlfriend and you still got with him and you even said he's lowest of the low -- so I'm assuming it was all a mess. At some point you become responsible for your own actions and the repercussions (pain) of those actions. 3
elaine567 Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 The fact he never finishes is on him NOT YOU. If he stopped drinking maybe he would be able to finish. The gf is just angry and warning you off her bf. He may not have said any of these things about you to her, she is just out to cause trouble. If he did say them then he is probably spouting off to make her feel better or he is just one horrible person. Get yourself out of this situation, do you not think you deserve better?. If you just want a casual sexual relationship, then I guess there are a lot nicer guys out there who would give you a better experience than a guy who is a drunk, has a gf and can't even finish. 1
kendahke Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 Found out the guy I was casually seeing has a gf who sent me a very ****** message. Saying how he chucked me out during crap sex a few times and that I'm ugly why I can't get a bf. He's gone with me 12 times but it's given me a complex as he never finishes despite me not having a prob with anyone else. Really made me feel not great. In past he's said I'm good in bed but he never finishes but does drink a lot too It sounds to me as if he talks himself into the act, but somewhere during it--every time--he doesn't finish. For whatever reason, he doesn't want to go there with you. I'd leave him alone. You knew that he had a girlfriend back in August. It's 2 months hence now.
Redhead14 Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 Found out the guy I was casually seeing has a gf who sent me a very ****** message. Saying how he chucked me out during crap sex a few times and that I'm ugly why I can't get a bf. He's gone with me 12 times but it's given me a complex as he never finishes despite me not having a prob with anyone else. Really made me feel not great. In past he's said I'm good in bed but he never finishes but does drink a lot too PALEEZE!!! The guy cheats on his women, can't finish in bed, and is a drunk. Who gives a crap what he says? You two went out 12 times, but you're ugly and bad in bed? If that's true, he's ok with sleeping with ugly girls who are bad in bed . . . what does that say about his "girlfriend"???? He'll be saying that to his next girlfriend about all the other girls before her . . . And, stop dating guys you know have girlfriends . . . someday, when you grow up, you might be someone's girlfriend and find out how it feels to be cheated on.
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