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Should I continue chasing this girl?


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I recently met this girl and I have developed strong feelings for her. She is gentle, sensitive and caring. I've known her a very long time now, and I wish to be careful about this relationship.

 

I asked her out the first time and she said she was busy, then rearranged another time for us to meet. We had a pretty good time, and at the end of it she agreed to go out again after our respective examnations. We are both in college.

 

Fast forward one month to now. I asked her out again, and this time she said she wasn't free this weekend, and agreed to meet 'maybe sometime later?' She didn't mention a set date this time.

All her text responses were also half-hearted. I'm inclined to attribute this to her being busy.

 

Regardless, I told her she could tell me whenever she was free and she said okay.

 

I don't understand? Her behaviour online and offline is polarized. Should I continue pursuing, or is her apparent decline in interest a sign I should give it up?

 

Any ideas how I should proceed? Thank you all so much in advance!

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Move along. Move along. Nothing to see here.

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Nothing going on. She likes the attention but has no intention of dating you seriously.

 

Leave it be and move on.

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If she had any real interest she would be making time to see you again. She isn't worth the time. You are in college, plenty to see, plenty to date, etc

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I echo what's already been said...time to move on.

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