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I've been with this woman for almost two years well about six months ago I confessed to her I needed help with addiction and went to rehab.after rehab she accepted back into her home so I immediately got a job and started being productive and contributing things were going good until last Saturday when she found a pipe that I hid long before I went to rehab she immediately made me leave our house. I begged for her to let me take a drug test on the spot and even take a hair follicle test that goes back to when I left rehab to prove I'm clean and yet she still doesn't believe I wasn't using and wants nothing to do with me any advice is greatly appreciated

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Hi,

 

I'm not entirely certain there will be a decision for you to make. She will or won't take you back. Although, if she decided to be in a relationship with you again you will then have a choice.

 

It seems she feels her trust has been betrayed which is a hard thing to recover from. If she does decide to pursue a relationship with you again she will be weary of your truthfulness for some time. It's a defence mechanism which can be harmful to your emotional wellbeing. If this is the case you need to decide if rekindling is what you truly want because it can be a hard path to follow.

 

I must mention however that separating from her and finding a new path to follow is also not an easy task.

 

Best of wishes for your future ?.

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