Coldfire Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 What is your experience with straight guys who seem to have mostly female and gay friends? Is this EVER ok?
Midnight_Madness Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 Hi, One of my friendship groups is predominantly female orientated with only two males friends. There are some conversations not quite as suited to males but ultimately I don't see an issue with the friendship. We all get along well and have a fun time. Is there a specific reason you would like to know about this type of friendship? Such as relationship/dating wise.
basil67 Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 I can understand you feeling threatened by him having female friends. But why the concern about the gay guys? Is your guy Bi?
enddeck Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 Check out the talk about marriage forum.There is a guy Andy1001 posting a thread called my fiancées tattoo.He has no friends at all apart from gay women that he lived with and is totally screwed up.It sounds like fun but this guy has never had a successful relationship with a woman.
losangelena Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 Errr, What exactly is wrong with that scenario? He has gay friends? Oh no!
enddeck Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 Ive just retread some of the post I mentioned earlier and it seems this guy was actually using his lesbian friends to pick up straight women,with great success for years.Its something called pre selection,he would go into a bar with one of the gay girls and when she left he was always getting hit on.He had a great time according to him but when he finally fell in love he had no clue how a relationship works.
thefooloftheyear Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 Nothing "wrong" with it, but its really not typical of heterosexual men... TFY
Author Coldfire Posted October 4, 2016 Author Posted October 4, 2016 Thanks for all the replies! I just went to a bday party of a guy who asked me out and 90% of the friends were girls or gay guys. So I just don't know what to think.
mikeylo Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 Don't go ahead. Too much drama and issues. Not worth the headache and heartache that it will bring.
central Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 I'm a heterosexual man and most of my friends throughout my life have been women, or intellectual men. No doubt some were also gay. I just found that the people I found interesting were more intellectual, less sports-driven, more creative, and better able to carry on a conversation that isn't superficial or mundane.
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