Offspring Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 (edited) Just feeling lost, empty, used, and like they have moved on without a worry in the world. I know what it's like to feel like a piece of "garbage" after somebody fails to validate any of your feelings and trashed your honesty. When does karma take hold? Why is it so unjust? Just having a whinge.. Edited October 3, 2016 by Offspring
Darien 76 Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 I hear ya. For everyone who has ever gone through a tough breakup and been hurt badly it's natural to hope karma one day comes their way. Life is filled with ups and downs and even if they're on top today one day they won't be. Don't let that detract from appreciating all the good blessings that you have and all the good things that await you in your future.
Author Offspring Posted October 4, 2016 Author Posted October 4, 2016 Thanks Darien. I actually just thought that it's everybody's choice, and if they don't, for some reason' choose you, then that is their choice.
burnt Posted October 4, 2016 Posted October 4, 2016 What if, karma took hold today? What if, you wake up and get the news that your ex receives what he/she deserves, and that justice is served? Would you feel healed? You think you would--but your pain won't go away knowing your ex suffered. It will relieve your anger for a short while, but it won't take away your deep sense of betrayal or your pain. Some people say "let go", others say "allow forgiveness"--I am not sure I understand the meaning of either phrase. But it seems, time is the only remedy--not a cure, but the only available treatment to numb out the pain--eventually.
Darien 76 Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 You're right Offspring. And if they don't choose you then it's their loss! Don't take someone's decision to pursue a relationship with someone else to mean you are somehow "less than" or "garbage" because you're not. I have found one of the most helpful things to do is retrain your mind and thoughts after the breakup. But it's natural to cry and throw a pity party for yourself when you need to. You will be ok. Be patient with yourself.
Author Offspring Posted October 6, 2016 Author Posted October 6, 2016 (edited) What if, karma took hold today? No, you're right burnt. The karma comment was stupid. I miss her I guess, but I'm missing for two people. Edited October 6, 2016 by Offspring
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