Braytc Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 There's a girl near me that i messaged on instagram last night, she responded first thing with "Heyy (smiley face with heart eyes). Talked to her for a couple hours, didn't do anything crazy just asked her if she wanted to text instead, she gave me her number. Texted her for a while, today asked her to do something this week. She told me her busy schedule, then she said "let me know when you're free". Talked to her about that, and now she's taking like 7 hours to respond. Where do i stand?
gorf Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 Ever consider she has a BF and is just secretly using you for an ego boost or cause she likes the attention? Maybe just getting as far as you did is as far as she was planning on letting it go. A lot of guys and girls do that same thing
Lois_Griffin Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 LOL. You haven't 'talked' to her once. It's all been lame typing and texting. 3
angel.eyes Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 She may have a life. Most of us can't text all day. Since texting is going nowhere, I would pck up the phone, have a chat with her, and ask her out on a a date.. Then you'll know where you stand.
mortensorchid Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 Yes, if you want to actually get somewhere, call her rather than text her. You're just chatting about nonsense at this point. If she does not respond to your phone calls, you have your answer. I met someone on Instagram a few years ago. Once we moved from there to texting, he would arrange for a date then flake out at the last minute. I gave up on him. Looking back I feel foolish. How could I have thought that he was in any way serious about me? I did eventually meet him about a year later, he apologized for the times he blew me off. I said it's alright, but I am not his friend and I got the impression he was not looking for a gf in any kind of way. Just saying, this may not go anywhere based on the medium in which you met. 1
Author Braytc Posted October 4, 2016 Author Posted October 4, 2016 Well lets see. I sleep 3 hours a day. Work full time, go to school, and run my own business from home. If she cant find 2 seconds to send anything i dont know what to say. If i can you can. She has no bf (confirmed). Again if she did have a bf why the flirty **** and giving out phone number? She says "let me know when youre free" then just doesnt type back for an entire day? Just makes zero sense why she would even go through half of this
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