surferchic Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 (edited) Hi LS. I just wanted to know if any of you play little mind games with yourself in the process of getting over an ex. I've healed a lot this year. It hasnt been easy. My ex-fiance and i split almost 2 yrs ago and I'm JUST getting to the point where I'm not thinking about him every day. I do still think of him from time to time, but not nearly as much as I used to. I miss the affection and attention even with the flaws. When we communicated a while ago, he said that he cpuldnt believe we hadn't run into one another since we'd broken up. Ffwd... So in the momemnts when i do still think of him, I sometimes imagine that he is watching me from afar. That he's driving some different vehicle now that i clearly wouldn't recognize (which is true) because thats just how he is... but part of what I imagine him doing,i.e. changing vehicles Is true because of his job. The rest of my life is not really concerned with him. But when I'm heading home and work I feel like someone's watching. Not good but not horrible unless he were to get crazy, which I doubt. Edited October 3, 2016 by surferchic
Traceycprc Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 (edited) I think you are worrying about nothing. If he wanted to see you, he would have done by now. It's just a turn of phrase don't read too much into it. Live your life and see what it brings you each day. Edited October 3, 2016 by Traceycprc 1
Author surferchic Posted October 3, 2016 Author Posted October 3, 2016 I think you are worrying about nothing. If he wanted to see you, he would have done by now. It's just a turn of phrase don't read too much into it. Live your life and see what it brings you each day. Thanks. However, due to the details of him and our relationship he wouldn't let it be known if he was around or watching from afar. He's been nearby before and called to say he was nearby early one morning,but i couldnt see him at that time. There are details that I can't even disclose for him wanting/needing to stay a bit incognito... I guess I'm just venting in here because 1) uve had a stalker before 2) i miss this ex of discussion but i left him for good reason 3) other friends and family thiught i should've been afraid of him....but i wasn't. I'm still not afraid or worried per se, just thoughtful...
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