opal101 Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 So we broke up about a month ago. I stopped using facebook 3 days after break up as I kept stalking his page...which is never a good thing to do. I didn't see anything on his page but I knew if I continued to check his facebook page that I would see something. So I decided to take a break from Facebook for a while....I have been NC for 18 days now and I feel ok in myself. I don't want to log into facebook incase I see something on my newsfeed that he has posted...but I also know when I do eventually log back in I will have to go onto his page to unfriend him....that will be a lot of temptation to look at his posts seen as I'm on his facebook page....Maybe it's too soon to jump back into the facebook world?? Maybe I should give it some more time? Any opinions? Link to post Share on other sites
Tom96 Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 Honestly? I don't think you should be back on Facebook just yet. It doesn't seem like you are ready to see anything about him, it may put you back to square one. I would keep NC and no Facebook for now. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Traceycprc Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 I agree it's too soon. You may think you are feeling a bit better about things, then you will see something and it will put you back to square one. Forget Facebook for now and save yourself the pain. Remember Facebook is just where people seem happy, and their life is fantastic, it's just a snapshot, you never know what is going on underneath. If you are OK with those happy posts, moving on, potential new love interest go for it, of not leave things alone. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
sherbmeister Posted October 4, 2016 Share Posted October 4, 2016 So we broke up about a month ago. I stopped using facebook 3 days after break up as I kept stalking his page...which is never a good thing to do. I didn't see anything on his page but I knew if I continued to check his facebook page that I would see something. So I decided to take a break from Facebook for a while....I have been NC for 18 days now and I feel ok in myself. I don't want to log into facebook incase I see something on my newsfeed that he has posted...but I also know when I do eventually log back in I will have to go onto his page to unfriend him....that will be a lot of temptation to look at his posts seen as I'm on his facebook page....Maybe it's too soon to jump back into the facebook world?? Maybe I should give it some more time? Any opinions? I'd unfriend him AND block him. Thats what I did with my ex. It's easier and you won't see anything on your newsfeed anymore. Theres no point in keeping him on your friends list. If he dumped you, he will know how to contact you incase he needs to talk to you. Don't worry. Stay strong! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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