Hotchickend Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 Hi! I'm in a relationship with a guy since a year but he likes some unusual stuff. For example, he likes stinky socks a lot. The more it stinks, the more he gets excited. So I gave him a pair of mine. I thought it was funny in the first place but now he just masturbate to it and sniff them and I think it's gross. Our sex life is a mess now and he don't wanna make love with me he just wanna watch me with others. Oh! An other thing: He can't stop speaking about some sexy girls he have seen even if they don't speak to him anymore. Is that normal? I think he is living his life in some sort of a parallel world. Now I'm afraid he just want that weird stuff and that I cannot have normal sex ever . I really love him but I dunno what to do anymore and what to think about all that stuff. Help me please cause I really wanna know what you think about it.
preraph Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 Your man has a fetish and he's not really very interested in anyone as much as he is that fetish. I have a friend who married a foot fetishist who has some major social anxiety problems as well. He too mostly likes to watch. She is sexual and would like to get laid. Plus it does get ridiculous when you have to stand by and watch someone who has a screw loose masturbating to dirty socks or shoes or whatever it is. It hasn't got much to do with you. It doesn't sound like much of a relationship, frankly. He cares more about the socks than he cares about your happiness, and that's taking a fetish too far. He needs psychological help because he's letting this fixation run his life. I would find someone else to love. He won't even miss you if you leave him a couple pair of socks behind. 4
mikeylo Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 Yeah, it's a fetish. He wants to watch you with other but do you want to ? If not , why are you still with him ? Don't do something that you don't want to. 3
ManyDissapoint Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 Posts like these make me wonder how I can be single as a 9/10, normal man. 1
Pete2304 Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 Posts like these make me wonder how I can be single as a 9/10, normal man. After reading that post, I'm with you on that although pinch of salt springs to mind. I've been dumped after ten years for a part time boxer who lives in a flat with no TV because apparently he doesn't believe in television and he sleeps on the floor because he'd rather have his mattress there than on his bed. My wife is in love with this man. He likes to spend his spare time breaking pieces of wood with his bare hands and shooting squirrels in the woods with a homemade crossbow. I'm normal, nice and don't have an issue with squirrels or TV. Sometimes you just wonder if this is all one big joke!!! 2
Author Hotchickend Posted October 3, 2016 Author Posted October 3, 2016 So you guys think he could be just using me to have my socks than he don't need me anymore?
preraph Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 After reading that post, I'm with you on that although pinch of salt springs to mind. I've been dumped after ten years for a part time boxer who lives in a flat with no TV because apparently he doesn't believe in television and he sleeps on the floor because he'd rather have his mattress there than on his bed. My wife is in love with this man. He likes to spend his spare time breaking pieces of wood with his bare hands and shooting squirrels in the woods with a homemade crossbow. I'm normal, nice and don't have an issue with squirrels or TV. Sometimes you just wonder if this is all one big joke!!! There's no accounting for taste, my friend. Now you know she had a little screw loose herself. 1
preraph Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 So you guys think he could be just using me to have my socks than he don't need me anymore? He isn't capable of having a relationship with you. He's obsessed with his fetish, and that's what he cares about more than anything. Having a girlfriend may just be his way of trying to tell himself he's normal. Seems like you don't really serve any other substantial role. He doesn't care about your needs at all. It's one-sided. 1
Pete2304 Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 There's no accounting for taste, my friend. Now you know she had a little screw loose herself. Yep, not like friends and family haven't been telling me for years she was bad news but naturally I didn't listen. As for the OP, I'd say don't waste anymore time on it mate, windup springs to mind. 2
Author Hotchickend Posted October 5, 2016 Author Posted October 5, 2016 So I read all your advice carefuly and then I tried to have sex with him only which he agreed. I wanted to know if he could do it. What a surprise I got when he put his dick out and started pissing in my mouth. I think I really felt a real contact, real love with my boyfriend for the first time. When he put all that piss in my mouth and ask me to drink it, then I felt really loved. He was sharing something really personal with me.
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