Author NJooo Posted October 2, 2016 Author Posted October 2, 2016 In the beginning he was always talking about how hot I was and how pretty. I dont mind the compliment but I began to wonder was that all he was focusing on? He was so pushy about me giving him oral sex. He also told me he is immature and I'm mature and that I don't understand how he thinks
Nowty V Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 He also told me he is immature and I'm mature and that I don't understand how he thinks He doesn't sound as though he has the capacity to think with his mind, his brains are in his pants, you deserve much better than this. Stay single, if someone comes along who appreciates who you are; and respects your faith, make a decision then. 2
Author NJooo Posted October 2, 2016 Author Posted October 2, 2016 6 months but he started making these sexual demands Wayyy too early. Maybe I shouldn't have dated someone younger than me. He kept saying that with age difference I didn't understand how he thinks. It's too complicated I don't ever plan on talking to him again
Author NJooo Posted October 2, 2016 Author Posted October 2, 2016 He responded in a childish manner with picture memes saying stuff like I will transfer you to someone who gives a f*ck and saying stuff like get the f*ck outta here with a picture of someone being thrown away. Very childish stuff
RyanO1991 Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 Maybe he meant that he was worried he'd topple over and fall onto you because of his big head! Seriously, it sounds like he has a massive ego trapped in a tiny brain. He probably felt intimidated because he met a lady who was more secure, smart and confident than him.
spiderowl Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 It means he will end up breaking your heart if you get attached to him.
stillafool Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 He also gave the excuse at one point that he got into a relationship with me because he wasn't thinking straight and he was horny....I can't make this up This was probably the only time he was telling the truth. 1
spiderowl Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 In the beginning he was always talking about how hot I was and how pretty. I dont mind the compliment but I began to wonder was that all he was focusing on? He was so pushy about me giving him oral sex. He also told me he is immature and I'm mature and that I don't understand how he thinks He wasn't talking about your personality, was he? Guys like this are ten a penny. In it for sex only. They have no soul. He was a jerk to try to pressure you. Thank goodness you are out of this awful situation! Make a list of the good qualities you want in a guy. When you meet someone, check they have those qualities. For example, kindness. Would a kind guy pressure you to have oral sex when you hardly know him? No. See how easy it is to rule out the creeps.
Author NJooo Posted October 3, 2016 Author Posted October 3, 2016 Yes only after we had been knowing each other for about 3 and a half weeks he started saying "so are you gonna give me some head?" I had began to wonder was this guy some kind of sex addict because that's all he thought about and I remember asking him was he like that all the time and he responded yes. he couldn't just sit down and hold a conversation with me without having sex. I think he is obsessed.
preraph Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 He's not willing to be a good person enough to hold up his end of a relationship. He's not willing to put in the effort to be right and fair. Dump him. Don't ever stay with someone who tells you they're no good.
fromheart Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 my ex and I didn't work things out his reason was that he will probably hurt me. Now I've heard guys says I don't want to hurt you but he just deliberately said he will probably hurt me. He also said he doesn't want to be in a relationship. What's the real meaning behind him saying he will probably hurt me? I've actually had a woman say the same thing. I was young back then, and didn't listen to what people where saying. She turned out to be borderline psychotic and did indeed hurt me. So now if someone tells me this, I thank them for their time and honest warning and wish them well. Then I take off and am grateful that a bullet has been dodged.
Arieswoman Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 Missnini, Q. What does it mean when someone says "I'll probably hurt you." A. It means the same as these; "Don't get too attached to me" "I'm not a nice person" "You deserve a better guy than me" "I can't give you what you deserve" So you don't waste one more minute of your precious time with this guy and move on to something better 1
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