10 years and it is finally over - warning

[Poppy47]

I couldn't agree more McBride.

 

My "child" is a middle aged married mother, needless to say she doesn't live with me.

 

And yet she KNEW that I was absent from her life and her family's life. She knows about the A now and wishes I had told her from the beginning.

 

Poppy.

 

ps No matter how careful parents are, kids have big, big ears.

[pkn06002]

slow clap.

 

btw, do you know how foolish it sounds to complain that someone you are n longer in a relationship with didn't give you a heads up when she found someone new?

 

Folks like you are interesting you seem so desperate to get me upset.

 

Listen we were still in a relationship as far as I knew since she was still in contact and saying how she loved me. So as far as I knew the situation had not changed. But it did and her new feelings made the old irrelevant lesson learned.

 

Again learn to read we had an agreement

[ladydesigner]

pkn06002 ok well then given what you know now, how will you keep this from happening again in the future?

 

BTW I agree most all A's end badly I feel very few end up being long lasting M's. I am not just a BS I am a fMOW as well so I get the whole A dynamic, it's what led me into the same hole you find yourself.

[pkn06002]

pkn06002 ok well then given what you know now, how will you keep this from happening again in the future?

 

BTW I agree most all A's end badly I feel very few end up being long lasting M's. I am not just a BS I am a fMOW as well so I get the whole A dynamic, it's what led me into the same hole you find yourself.

 

Oh a mad hatter!!!!

 

Again yeah never going down that route again. Took really getting my heart broken to finally get it all through my head. Yes ow broke my heart by not caring about my feelings, yes ironic for those that want to bring up my BS.

 

From this point on just open and honest relationships and if not happy be honest and move on.

[anika99]

This thread is stupid. I don't even know what it's about at this point.