Shawnnag34 Posted October 1, 2016 Posted October 1, 2016 Hi, I am new to this forum but I am going through a really hard breakup and need advice. Me and my boyfriend, well ex as of today, had been together for 1 1/2 years. I am a recovering heroin addict which he knew getting into this. Back in January I relapsed and it got out of hand to the point I stole money. He wanted to leav me then but I went to rehab and when I got home we worked things out but I had lost his trust which is very important. He told me we would work things out and we did..things had been amazing between us better than ever...about 3 weeks ago I found out my drivers lisence was suspended. He thought I had known which I didnt but he thought I was lying and that brought everything up from the past. So we took a trip to the beach for a few days and.had an amazing time. Whenwe got home he told me the only reason he had stayed with me was cause he felt sorry for me..but he said he wanted to b with me now but this trust issue, and ge xant get over what I had done in the past... Over the course of the past week he has been leaving and gone.for.hours..and told me he didnt know.what he wanted and that he didnt feel the same anymore. I asked him the other night when he would know.cause I.cant stand things being so uncertain and he said in the.first...I brushed it off. Our rent is due today and I had put my whole paycheck in his bank account since I dont have 1 that wat rent would get paid. So wednesday and thursday things were great between us so I thought. Last night he tild me.he wanted to stay with me and we nust had a great night. He got up and took me to work today and before I.got out he said " ill see you at 2, love u" I didnt hear from him all day which isnt odd..but right before my shift at work ended he told me.he wouldnt make it to pick me up just to call him when I get home. So I left work and started walking home and he called me and said he was sorry he couldnt do it anymore...while I was at work he moved everything out. And when I say everything I mean the only things he left were my clothes and my cat..I asked him if he paid the rent and he said yes, im not in the lease so I called the landlord to see if I could just take over the lease. Well she told me he didnt pay the rent and I got 7 days to be out...and he had kept all my money.I.had put in his account. I am so lost right now, my whole world is upside down..I truly love that man..what do I do. Our only issue was the trust thing. I am a wreck and he never called to see if I was atleast ok..I keep thinking hes with another women. I feel like he threw me away like garbage. But also I have 7 days to find a place and im beoke...I m si stressed and devastated..I need advice please. Thanks
Cyra Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 Hi, what he did to you is pretty despicable. First thing, I would forget about him. He bailed when things got hard and left you in the sh*t. Did you manage to find somewhere to stay? Any friends or family you could stay with in the meantime.
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