Author cucumber95 Posted October 2, 2016 Author Posted October 2, 2016 My point was less about the legality of the situation and more about the fact that at her age, 7 months is a pretty standard relationship length. You don't really think that at her age, she's had her final relationship, do you? What do you mean by this? "she's had her final relationship, do you?"
ExpatInItaly Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 What do you mean by this? "she's had her final relationship, do you?" That her relationship with you won't be her last one. Very, very few people wind up marrying their teenage loves. And no, going to see her when she is 18 won't make a difference. She is still a long way from settling down and committing.
Author cucumber95 Posted October 2, 2016 Author Posted October 2, 2016 That her relationship with you won't be her last one. Very, very few people wind up marrying their teenage loves. And no, going to see her when she is 18 won't make a difference. She is still a long way from settling down and committing. I understand, but we were so much connected and close, we both wanted to be together forever, I belived in all that, because I knew I am telling truth, well I did not think that her age would make so much difference. I wanted our love to be first and last one, I wanted impossible, I know but I strongly belived that it can happen. I love her so much, and miss her. If she wanted to break, why not in normal way? well because she is inmature, but still, all these moments, meant something... she loved me so much, I know it, well maybe I don't? She made me think that I can trust her, that I can feel safe by loving her. It's not even that I want her back, I would be happy to just see her from far away, see her smile and beatiful eyes
ExpatInItaly Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 I know you are hurting. It takes time to process and feel more normal again. But most of your questions and concerns have already been addressed. She is behaving the way many teens do. They tend to be impulsive and fickle. I know I sure was at her age. I understand that doesn't make it hurt any less, but it should help you realize that a big factor here is her immature and limited life experience. When I was her age, I thought I had met the love of my life too. God, how wrong I was! And rightfully so. The girl I was at 17 is not the woman I am today, at 35. I learned a lot along the way though, and am still learning. In time, you will move past this. Seeing her from afar, as you put it, would not help you feel any better either. The big benefit here is that you are also quite young, and plenty of years of fun and romance ahead of you. You won't believe it now, but you will someday meet a woman who makes your ex a fond memory instead of the great love you perceive her to be now. This is only your first relationship. The best is yet to come, I guarantee it. 2
Recommended Posts