Author thomas123 Posted October 2, 2016 Author Posted October 2, 2016 Agreed. OP, buying a game and setting it up doesn't equate to her driving back to see you every two weeks. She might be doing as I said earlier or she might be starting to let you down gently so be prepared. she comes back home every 2 weeks regardless. its not really because of me, she was doing it before she was my gf. goes back to see her parents and if were both free we go out. How is this letting me down gently? its worse. Id rather have someone break up with me then drag it on for months.
GemmaUK Posted October 2, 2016 Posted October 2, 2016 Then ask her seriously if she wants to break up. If she says yes let her go.
Author thomas123 Posted October 2, 2016 Author Posted October 2, 2016 (edited) Then ask her seriously if she wants to break up. If she says yes let her go. will do right now. edit: she said she doesnt... Edited October 2, 2016 by thomas123
GemmaUK Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 Then great, she has either just got busier or is trying to get some spark back in. It's up to you now to get a hold of your emotions, not sweat the small stuff and keep your self in check. 1
Author thomas123 Posted October 3, 2016 Author Posted October 3, 2016 Then great, she has either just got busier or is trying to get some spark back in. It's up to you now to get a hold of your emotions, not sweat the small stuff and keep your self in check. ill try, will be hard. granted i still worry about the small stuff, i just keep it inside instead. still a problem but better that then complaining to her. She said shes coming home for a week next week and said we can "maybe" hangout which kinda irks me but gotta keep cool.
GemmaUK Posted October 3, 2016 Posted October 3, 2016 ill try, will be hard. granted i still worry about the small stuff, i just keep it inside instead. still a problem but better that then complaining to her. She said shes coming home for a week next week and said we can "maybe" hangout which kinda irks me but gotta keep cool. The 'maybe' is another sign she wants out. Maybe she's too worried about breaking up with you because you have been needy and controlling. Split up with her, you're not happy in this anyway, get some therapy and date when you are ready. Move on. You're tough to communicate with OP. The second you don't like something even I can tell!
Author thomas123 Posted October 3, 2016 Author Posted October 3, 2016 (edited) The 'maybe' is another sign she wants out. Maybe she's too worried about breaking up with you because you have been needy and controlling. Split up with her, you're not happy in this anyway, get some therapy and date when you are ready. Move on. You're tough to communicate with OP. The second you don't like something even I can tell! well her maybes arent uncommon, shes been saying those since we met. most of her maybes end up being yes. if she wanted me not to worry, breaking up with me is the best action she can take. taking is slow only makes things worse. so it wouldnt make sense to be that. its like peeling a bandaid off slowly vs. pulling it off quick Edited October 3, 2016 by thomas123
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