Have you ever cheated on someone or been cheated on (as far as you know)?

[ZayKayWill]

Be honest...I'm not here to judge. As far as I know I've never been cheated on or cheated on anyone before. I've helped someone cheat though and it was actually one of my best friends' girlfriend...it was so weird. She came to hang out with me and a couple of friends (I guess her boyfriend aka one of my best friends) was tired and didn't feel like getting too crazy that night. She totally came onto me. The first couple of times when she kissed me I actually pushed her off. I think as I started drinking more, though, I just said, "screw it" and ended up having sex with her that night. Honestly I wasn't planning on telling my friend but I felt way too guilty after a while, plus he was telling me that he was planning to relocate to another state with her...so eventually I ended up telling him. One of the most crippling moments of my life honestly. Not gonna lie I gave him permission to punch me if he wanted to. He didn't. He was upset for a while though (rightfully so) but was glad that I ended up telling him the truth. I think it took like 3 or 4 months for him to not be so mad at me anymore. He oddly enough ended up thanking me for doing it....we're still friends today.

 

There was another instance where I slept with this one girl when I was on vacation in Alaska when I was still close with my ex...we weren't officially together though. Her parents actually ended up making us break up. We still liked each other though so we basically were still seeing each other but with no labels. Not sure if that counts as cheating? She did kiss one dude and I wasn't happy about it, but I got over it pretty fast.

[l8estnews]

Why do you want to know? All of the information this thread could give you can already be found in the Infidelity/Cheating Forums.

 

And just a side comment, helping one cheat can be a manifestation that you might become a cheater yourself. Only a few have morals and values now. Hope you could be one of them.

 

Stay true!

[ZayKayWill]

Didn't realize there was a Cheating board. My bad. Still pretty new here.

[cocorico]

Nope, never cheated on anyone, nor AFAIK been the recipient.

[Shanex]

Never cheated.

 

Been cheated on? Absolutely no idea. I suspected some, but never backed up with evidences.

[Gloria25]

Never cheated...

 

Been cheated on? Oh yea, lost count of how many times...

[bubbaganoosh]

Yeah I've been cheated on and it isn't fun. I think that anyone that would cheat on their bf/gf husband/ wife isn't much of a person and I have little or no respect for them.

[MJJean]

Yup to both.

[ASG]

Never cheated.

 

Cheated on? Don't know for sure. I suspect so, but they denied it and I have no evidence. In both those cases the relationship was nore than on the rocks and we ended up breaking up not long after. One guy started dating someone pretty much straight away (although our break up was long coming and she might have sped things along, but wasn't the main reason. However, I suspect he might have cheated with her but have no proof).

The other had no rebound, but at one point I found a condom wrapper by his bed. He explained it away with a friend and her bf having stayed over (which I know to be true), so again, no proof.

[Got it]

Yes and Yes.