kendahke Posted September 27, 2016 Posted September 27, 2016 I just ran this through the Universal Translator, and it came out as follows: "I really hate this situation and its bad for me, but I'm afraid of saying anything, because it might displease her." Take care. Satu ftw!!!! \O/ 2
kendahke Posted September 27, 2016 Posted September 27, 2016 I just ran this through the Universal Translator, and it came out as follows: "I really hate this situation and its bad for me, but I'm afraid of saying anything, because it might displease her." Take care. Satu ftw!!!! \O/ They have no custody arrangement, (he) has a felony warrant out on him for domestic violence from her. He's put spy software on her old phone. He has contracted me threatening her life, etc. Clearly, what he has done is not enough for her to be repulsed by it. This might just be some sick foreplay between the two of them. Crazier mess has gone down between two dysfunctional people who cannot give up the other because they're addicted to the crazy that person brings. No matter what you think you bring to this situation, it isn't enough to make her say to herself "self, we really have no use for our ex and he needs to be excised from our lives so we can build something worthwhile with CJH." As long as what you bring falls short of what she gets out of continuing to deal with him, this is going to be a case of "rinse and repeat". They're not emotionally done with one another. That's not a show I'd stick around for, no matter how good I thought the sex was. 1
kgcolonel Posted September 27, 2016 Posted September 27, 2016 Dude.....really????? If she really wanted you to know what the texts contained, she'd preserve them and show you....I don't see you posting that this is what she did. She is either afraid of him....real possibility or she is addicted to his abuse....many people are addicted to the "I can fix them / this" behavior. The idea that a child is better off with an abusive father than without is absurd. If he'd abuse the mother of his children, who would he not abuse eventually? You need to express one last time your perspective and if she doesn't respond with the 180 to him, exit stage left....and advise the authorities of his whereabouts for the arrest...he is a danger to the little ones at the very least. 1
smackie9 Posted September 28, 2016 Posted September 28, 2016 Unfortunately, an attractive woman willing to regularly have sex with you can do astonishing things to a man's judgment and tolerance. So you are saying men are actually the weaker sex? Well at least mentally? I agree with that. 1
Blanco Posted September 28, 2016 Posted September 28, 2016 So you are saying men are actually the weaker sex? Well at least mentally? I agree with that. I don't even know how that can be disputed, at least as it relates to relationships with the opposite sex.
Toodaloo Posted September 28, 2016 Posted September 28, 2016 Don't walk. Run from this. He is abusive and she is letting him. Get out. The one who will end up hurting the most and losing the most here is you. Get out of this relationship now. Just get out. 2
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