He fell asleep!!

[Mulberrypie]

Since the 2nd date when I went to this guy's house he has fallen asleep on me...literally. Does this mean he's not into me since he's not excited? I can't sleep around a new date I'm into. It's disconcerting because he seems so interested when he's awake. We have have been on 4 dates and each on he ends napping when return to his house. I even jokingly asked if he's narcoleptic. I also asked if was boring and he just laughed and said I was comfy. When I stayed the night he slept for 14!!!hours. I didn't know what to do so I patiently waited..

[ThisisIt606]

What does he do for his job? Are dates scheduledd close to odd shifts?

 

HE sounds boring, not you. Boring and rude. What did he say when you asked if he was narcoleptic?

 

Who even knew this would have to be mentioned as a dating criteria but please find a guy who's awake!!!

[elaine567]

Since the 2nd date when I went to this guy's house he has fallen asleep on me...literally. Does this mean he's not into me since he's not excited? I can't sleep around a new date I'm into. It's disconcerting because he seems so interested when he's awake. We have have been on 4 dates and each on he ends napping when return to his house. I even jokingly asked if he's narcoleptic. I also asked if was boring and he just laughed and said I was comfy. When I stayed the night he slept for 14!!!hours. I didn't know what to do so I patiently waited..

How old is he and what does he do for a job? If he is working long or double or back to back shifts he may just be sleep deprived, if over 40 he may have sleep apnoea.

If he acts very interested when he is not sleeping I doubt it is you.

[Redhead14]

They have gone back to his house after all 4 dates. To me it sounds like, he has sex, takes a nap afterward (and most men like a little snooze after sex, it's a natural response to the big O) and tosses her aside like a sex toy.

 

Unless he's a millionnaire and 85 years old, I wouldn't wait patiently while he sleeps for 14 hours . . .

 

If he's got that kind of a work schedule, it's not going to be a very fulfilling relationship anyway.

[gorf]

2nd date

 

fallen asleep on me...literally.

 

he seems so interested when he's awake.

 

4 dates

 

each on he ends napping when return to his house.

 

just laughed and said I was comfy.

 

When I stayed the night he slept for 14!!!hours.

 

You are here cause something seems off. I agree, something is off. There is nothing wrong with a guy who is into you falling asleep on you. But I think there is more to this. Whats his dating experience prior to you? Have you two been physical? Whats his sexual experience, do you know yet or no? Sounds like you need to gather more info from him first in-order to figure this out. (if you can keep him awake lol). You did say he seems interested when he is awake, so I would keep that in mind. Just need to dig deeper here

[alphamale]

maybe he works the night shift