ManyDissapoint Posted September 27, 2016 Posted September 27, 2016 Hello all. Dating question here. My brother's girlfriend is trying to set me up with an old friend of hers. She showed her my pictures and told her a bit about me and was very interested to meet me. She cancelled our first date and rescheduled to meet for coffee the next day. It was kind of a double date but without calling it that. After the coffee date she sends messages to my brother's girlfriend saying she really likes me and was impressed by me and we should meet up again. So I added her on FB and asked her out. She sounded thrilled and agreed to meeting up just the two of us. A couple days go by and I asked her out for drinks and she agreed excitedly. It was set up for last Saturday night. The day before she cancels saying that she had to go out of town urgently all weekend with her brother, and she would message me when she gets back in town to reschedule. Over the weekend she was meeting with friends, went to a club from what I can tell. I don't know what she had to do with her brother. I haven't heard from her since. Diagnosis?
ChatroomHero Posted September 27, 2016 Posted September 27, 2016 Sounds like a snub. I wouldn't expect much from for brother's gf in the way of info either, she probably won't be too forthright if the girl is not interested, you'll get the "I haven't heard anything form her..." either way. I would let it go and if she contacts you she is interested. If not, she is not. I would say if she doesn't contact you by today or tomorrow she has little to no real interest. If the brother's gf asks about it, you might want to indicate you were interested but are quickly losing interest. Personally I have found if someone blows you off like that and doesn't contact you to reschedule it's never going to work out. Also, are the friends she was with local? Was the club local? If you knew that, it would tell you a lot.
Miss Peach Posted September 27, 2016 Posted September 27, 2016 It sounds like a snub to me if you know for a fact it wasn't really an emergency. Even if I have an emergency of a commitment, I am straight forward about it because I don't want men to assume I'm not interested if I am. For example, if it were a health emergency and I didn't have a good timeline, I might say something like 'I should know more on Monday. Do want to talk then so we can reschedule?' 1
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