Johnjs1987 Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 So I will make this as short as I can. I recently have been dating this girl from my gym. Started back in the beginning of September. We went out a total off three times this past Friday being the last. Seemed like good progress lot of touchy feely, kiss, hand holding, etc... So initially when I met this girl she was super shy, she still is it seems but getting better. She was also the worst communicator we would text and sometimes it would take a day for her to get back. Very bad. As we got to know each other a little more though she started being very vocal. Long story short, since Friday she hasn't been as talkative. I feel like I am always the one opening the conversation otherwise we would never be talking. We literally have talked almost everyday for the past two weeks though. Some times short convo other times full blown convo. Might I add she is sooo busy with her work and school its so hard to get her out. We spoke yesterday and she just seemed so stressed cause she worked all weekend, I offered her to come to my place sometime this week and I would cook her a good meal. She basically declined saying, "I really appreciate that. I have a lot going on this week with work, school and preparing for my midterms. I"m having a hard time even just managing things I need to do." Of course I was understanding and said something to the nature of, "well as long as ya wanna hang again sometime well make it work. Haven't heard back though. I don't know it could be me just reading into it too much? Like I said we have been talking a lot but I don't want to press her. I mean do I not reach out to her for awhile? Any and all advice is appreciated. Thanks!
preraph Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 If she is shy, then she's so shy she's not ready for dating. Shy doesn't keep a person from texting back. It sounds like she's not really interested anymore.
Versacehottie Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 I don't think she is that interested. Don't assume the reason is you. But she has clearly stated that she has other priorities. I don't think you should try to squeeze in as a low priority. That's really no fun, is it? Also the worst communicator stuff would bug me. It's not that hard to text back. A full 24 hours is not good. Don't tell me that phone isn't glued to her side all day, every day. To her side, maybe she doesn't want to start a texting session that will go on and on--when she doesn't have much time and maybe that's just not her style, which i get. Are you sure your texting isn't needy like that? Needless to say, I would kinda leave it and let her make the next move. She is not that shy if she was able to state her "needs" as she did clearly and succinctly. If you've been out 3 times, she's not that shy either. If you picked her up in the gym, she's not that shy either. I think you should just pull back and see what happens. Still be cool with her though. Put it on pause.
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