Lappin1 Posted September 25, 2016 Posted September 25, 2016 (edited) Hey ! My question may feel stupid, but whatever After breakup up (mutual but still loving each other), we tried to stay friends for a month. Went to hell cause it was too tough for me. Tried to get her back and I did a lot of mistakes. I pushed her back. And she asked for space "for a while" (whatever that means !). Anyways, the ending was a bit brutal, so i decided to send her an apology letter. Very short letter. I told her the breakup was great, that it gave me time to think. I apologized for 2 things I did and told her it would be nice to catch up soon, when she is ready. She answered 4 days after (wasn't even expecting an answer). I was actually planning of doing NC for at least 30 days and see then. Her text message answer : "Hi, i got your letter. Thanks for writing that. I wanna say sorry too for (blablabla). I'm glad you are doing well" Should I completly ignore that ? Or just say "thanks" to be polite? I don't even want to engage a conversation right now.. Edited September 25, 2016 by Lappin1 1
Zahara Posted September 25, 2016 Posted September 25, 2016 Ignore. She acknowledged your email, said her piece and it's done. 5
JewelD Posted September 25, 2016 Posted September 25, 2016 Why send the letter asking to catch up soon if you planned on going NC for 30 days and didn't expect a reply? Don't send anymore letters or texts. Block her and move on. btw, NC isn't for the short term, it's for when you want to move on from a person. 30 days may not be enough time for you to get over it, especially with the thought of talking to her again as a 'prize' at the end of your 30 days. 3
Satu Posted September 25, 2016 Posted September 25, 2016 NC can be a big help for those who want to heal and move on. As a magic spell to bring an ex back, its usefulness is doubtful. Get on with your life; make it a more enjoyable life to live, and be good to yourself. Take care. 4
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