Moisstruggling Posted September 25, 2016 Posted September 25, 2016 Hi all. Sorry if I'm in the wrong section. I have been with the same girl for nearly 5 years now. Both of us are still living with out parents and fill time working. When we started going out it was very casual and fun. The sex was great but fr the last couple of years the pressur's have been building in me in my head mainly. She is a lovely girl really but very clingy. If we have decided to have a day alone she will still call 3 imes or show up at my place. My parents have accepted her 90% but her parents have accepted me 10%. Religious differences. .... I am going on holiday with her for a week leaving tomorrow and have a lot or things going through my head. After briefly talking to a friend I've realised that I'm not happy but the both of us have invested a lot into the relationship, financially and emotionally but I'm just not happy. Everytime I try to approach the subject she will go in about her daily/ family problems and I fell I don't want to add to them. I don't know if I am just too much of a coward to do the right thing. Right now she has hope/expectations from this relationship and I don't think I can meet them and I don't want to meet them. I am not an overly emotional guy. 6ft tall built like a builder and work as a plumber every day. I know I have my own issues but I'm not sure that even if I can sort my own head out, will I love her like before?
BluesPower Posted September 25, 2016 Posted September 25, 2016 First off, why are you still living with your parents? Just saying. Second, I am much older that your are. Just break up with this girl. The longer you drag it out the worse you will hurt her. You have already drug it out to long. Have the decency to end it now. If you really care about her the sooner the better. Then find some roommates get a place and live life.
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