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I met this girl a few weeks back at a bar through friends. We had a great connection the night we met. We danced together and made-out a lot that night. A week later I took her on a date, and which she was excited for the whole week. We ended up having a great time and I also heard from one of her friends that she speaks to about her relationships that she really enjoyed herself. Her friend also told me she also said that she might be liking me a little quicker than expected and that she does not want to come off clingy or anything like that. Now it's been two weeks since our date and I've noticed that she gets short with me in her messages and dances around the question when I ask her to hangout. If she really liked me would she acting this way? I'm not sure if I should keep on pursuing her or move on.

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I met this girl a few weeks back at a bar through friends. We had a great connection the night we met. We danced together and made-out a lot that night. A week later I took her on a date, and which she was excited for the whole week. We ended up having a great time and I also heard from one of her friends that she speaks to about her relationships that she really enjoyed herself. Her friend also told me she also said that she might be liking me a little quicker than expected and that she does not want to come off clingy or anything like that. Now it's been two weeks since our date and I've noticed that she gets short with me in her messages and dances around the question when I ask her to hangout. If she really liked me would she acting this way? I'm not sure if I should keep on pursuing her or move on.

 

Friends need to stay out of these situations, and this friend had no right disclosing how this girl felt.

 

How did she happen to tell you anyway did you ask about it?

 

If so that would piss me off.

 

If you want to know how I feel, ask ME, not my friend, geez.

 

If that is how it went down, this girl could feel the same and that is why she has gone cold now.

 

Pure speculation though based on limited detail.

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Her friend is just BSing you for her own entertainment. Ditch the girl, you don't need this crap.

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I have to say that in a lot of situations, just knowing that a so-called friend of mine had stepped in and interfered would be enough to taint the potential dating relationship for me, because I'd think there was some reason those two were talking and that it wasn't for MY benefit.

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