Green0123 Posted September 24, 2016 Posted September 24, 2016 I have been with my girlfriend 3 years now. A new girl turned up at work about 5 months ago and we have been flirting since. Last night our work went out for drinks and I ended going back to hers. We didn't have sex we just slept in the same bed and cuddled all night. Today I feel like I belong with her more than I do my girlfriend as she is more my ideal type. What should I do?
StalwartMind Posted September 24, 2016 Posted September 24, 2016 Breakup with your girlfriend so she can find someone who appreciates her more than you do. The grass is greener on the other side, this new woman will be amazing for you, well at least until another one appears who is even more interesting. What type of relationship do you have with your girlfriend anyway? Is it okay to flirt and cuddle with other people? If not, then yeah please give her the opportunity to find someone else who will treat her better. 5
Author Green0123 Posted September 25, 2016 Author Posted September 25, 2016 My girlfriend tells me that she loves me but I just don't feel like she does, she doesn't have time for me when she is at uni and so I would see her a couple of times every time she has a term break. It just feels that my girlfriend has forgotten about me and the girl at work might not even go anyway.
Buddhist Posted September 25, 2016 Posted September 25, 2016 You're already cheating on your current gf so I vote that you should go. I know there was technically no 'sex' involved but come on, you guys cuddled up in bed. Do you really think your gf would be cool with that? It's only a matter of time before you sleep with her. Set your gf free, I'm sure she'd be happy to go given she's not your 'ideal type'.
Author Green0123 Posted September 25, 2016 Author Posted September 25, 2016 things was not the best before we went on holiday about 6 weeks and then we went on holiday and everything was good again and since we have come back it has been going down hill again
Marco Valerio Posted September 25, 2016 Posted September 25, 2016 Be a noble man for once and break up with your girlfriend.
GemmaUK Posted September 25, 2016 Posted September 25, 2016 I think it's a bit late for being noble or to have integrity - you went past that - but you could take responsibility, fess up and finish with your girlfriend.
Gaeta Posted September 25, 2016 Posted September 25, 2016 I am not gonna trow rocks at you like the others. This girl at work filled a void your girlfriend left open. If you had been happy in your relationship you would have not noticed the new girl at work. Things were over for you with girlfriend already, just terminate it officially. It doesn't matter your girlfriend loves you, you do not love her anymore. Dating is about finding a suitable partner. Breaking up and finding a new better suited person is part of it.
love lover Posted September 25, 2016 Posted September 25, 2016 (edited) don't be a cheater. seriously, if you like this girl more, you need to end it with the other one, and don't tell her its because you met someone else. I'm speaking from experience when I say that being involved with more than one person is not healthy for you, and its not fair to anyone. So many things I could say about this sort of situation. Just make a choice before you go any further, because it will be really hard to live with yourself if you don't. Edited September 25, 2016 by love lover
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