Privatelover01 Posted September 23, 2016 Posted September 23, 2016 Hi. After nearly a year of no physical meeting and almost 7+months of NC. The MM is present again. Schedule to meet within the next week. He's still married, so I wonder. Emotionally I've never gotten over him. I do miss him, but I know it causes confusion and it's unhealthy. It's not for Sex. It's never been about sex. I guess my uncertainty brings me here for advice.
Maddieandtae Posted September 23, 2016 Posted September 23, 2016 If you want to stay confused than meet the married man. If you want to take care of YOUR mental health than do the actions that prevents you even needing to entertain this destructive question. Remember nothing has changed for the married man, don't be him
Chica80 Posted September 23, 2016 Posted September 23, 2016 What now? Nothing now he is still married. It's been 7 mo. NC if you meet with him it will not be back to square one it will be farther back. He will get the pick me up and love he needs and you will be left feeling empty again. It sounds very tempting. Please for your own heart and sanity don't do it. 4
Patrice Posted September 23, 2016 Posted September 23, 2016 Be firm, respect yourself and let him know you have limits and are worthy of respect. You are setting yourself up for another heartbreak. 2
HeCantBreakMe Posted September 23, 2016 Posted September 23, 2016 Hi. After nearly a year of no physical meeting and almost 7+months of NC. The MM is present again. Schedule to meet within the next week. He's still married, so I wonder. Emotionally I've never gotten over him. I do miss him, but I know it causes confusion and it's unhealthy. It's not for Sex. It's never been about sex. I guess my uncertainty brings me here for advice. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Do not meet with him. Nothing has changed with him until it does keep moving forward. 2
whichwayisup Posted September 23, 2016 Posted September 23, 2016 Hi. After nearly a year of no physical meeting and almost 7+months of NC. The MM is present again. Schedule to meet within the next week. He's still married, so I wonder. Emotionally I've never gotten over him. I do miss him, but I know it causes confusion and it's unhealthy. It's not for Sex. It's never been about sex. I guess my uncertainty brings me here for advice. Question is, why are you even considering meeting him? He's still married and nothing has changed. Where's your self love and respect? This man will hurt you, use you and try to charm you so tell him you've changed your mind and go back into no contact mode. If YOU choose to see him, you'll have nobody to blame when you get hurt again. Walk away. 3
BTDT2012 Posted September 23, 2016 Posted September 23, 2016 I hope the meeting is not at your home. The best thing for you to do is not show up for the meeting.
sandylee1 Posted September 23, 2016 Posted September 23, 2016 So what is the purpose of the meeting? Is he checking if you're still single and prepared to sign up for more heartache? 2
starswewillnavigate Posted September 24, 2016 Posted September 24, 2016 7 months NC and a whole year without seeing him - you're doing amazingly well. What did you get from your relationship? And why do you feel that you are tempted to see him? It's easy to look back and miss something. Look forward though, you've managed a whole year without seeing him, look to your future not your past. 1
Ruffian1 Posted September 24, 2016 Posted September 24, 2016 Don't go. Nothing good will come from it. If he got a D in the time you have been NC, he can tell you that via text, email, etc. Other than that there is no reason to break NC. Married =still married. Remember, f#@k him, you deserve better than being a secret.
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