_Saffy_ Posted July 7, 2005 Posted July 7, 2005 i was kinda hoping that i would never find myself back here looking for advice, but guess that wasnt realistic. ok the story....... met a real nice guy about 4 months ago, we get on like a house on fire, i believe he is my soul mate and he feels the same way. recently we have been arguing non stop........we spend every weekend together which is always amazing, and then come monday, when he goes back to his military base, the arguments start. we spend monday to thursday arguing about the most stupid things......and then make up for the weekend. this week things have got really really bad, and i dont think we are going to make up again. i have asked him to end it, if thats what he wants, but he wont actually do that. he wont tell me what he wants, i guess he probably doesnt know. i really do not wanna lose him, but every time i try to tell him that he ignores me, or avoids answering. or he will say something like "im no good for you, you deserve better" does anyone think we can get through this without splitting up? or does it really seem that is inevitable? help guys, im going mad here! my world is being ripped apart.
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 7, 2005 Posted July 7, 2005 he will say something like "im no good for you, you deserve better" He is meaning "You are no good for me, I deserve better." That's why he treats you the way he does. I don't see much of a point in staying unless you enjoy drama like that.
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 7, 2005 Posted July 7, 2005 Oh Saffy, I'm so sorry. I don't have much smart advice... my instinct would be to back off for a bit to let things cool. After that, I would see if it's possible to work on his stonewalling - but it's not a good sign. Lucrezia's right - it sounds like this relationship is destined for drama.
lvgrl Posted July 7, 2005 Posted July 7, 2005 Actually what it sounds like to me, Is when the sex is gone, there is nothing.
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