rlc1957 Posted September 22, 2016 Posted September 22, 2016 My gf recently posted about having a crush on a couple of movie stars. Sam Elliot and Brad Pitt. I have to admit that I feel a little bit of jealousy and I feel a little silly about feeling that way. I guess that we all have our crushes but this was the first time she made it known. I need to work on my confidence and insecurity I know....for some of us it's easier said than done. Thanks for reading. 1
urcrybaaby Posted September 22, 2016 Posted September 22, 2016 don't over think it she's with you for a reason ! all girls have celebrity crushes , you should start naming your celebrity crushes as well^.^ 2
Ami1uwant Posted September 22, 2016 Posted September 22, 2016 What actress would you like to sleep with???? 1
bebe23 Posted September 22, 2016 Posted September 22, 2016 Why be jealous? Everybody has celebrity crushes. Brad Pitt? Eewww, boring! 1
stillafool Posted September 22, 2016 Posted September 22, 2016 And, now that Brad Pitt will be free you must really be worried. Just kidding! I bet she wouldn't trade you for either of those guys. 1
Gaeta Posted September 22, 2016 Posted September 22, 2016 Insecurity in what sense? You are afraid she will run away with Brad Pitt? You think she expects you to look like Brad Pitt? What exactly bothers you? 1
Gaeta Posted September 22, 2016 Posted September 22, 2016 Wow!! I just read you are 50 years old. This is not about insecurity, not at your age, it's more about jealousy and control, right? 2
Toodaloo Posted September 22, 2016 Posted September 22, 2016 My gf recently posted about having a crush on a couple of movie stars. Sam Elliot and Brad Pitt. I have to admit that I feel a little bit of jealousy and I feel a little silly about feeling that way. I guess that we all have our crushes but this was the first time she made it known. I need to work on my confidence and insecurity I know....for some of us it's easier said than done. Thanks for reading. So you have a conversation where you agree to take Angelina if she agrees to take Brad... Are you telling me that you never look at another womans behind or breasts and secretly think to yourself that may be nice? Thinking someone is good looking is NOT the same as actually wanting to be with them or sleep with them. You must know this by now? 1
Satu Posted September 22, 2016 Posted September 22, 2016 Tell her that if she wants to be your girlfriend, she has to cease all contact with Sam Elliot and Brad Pitt immediately, and block them on everything. If they continue to pursue her, that would be a matter for the police. Stay strong. Take care. 3
Gaeta Posted September 22, 2016 Posted September 22, 2016 ric1957 I think all this insecurity and jealousy is not from her liking Brad Pitt per say. I think it's from her being caught texting an ex behind your back and refusing to show you her convo. I think it's about you not feeling adequate in bed with her. I am sorry for digging this out of your history but being worried about your girlfriend liking Brad Pitt is only a symptom of something else much deeper going on. 2
jbsophie Posted September 22, 2016 Posted September 22, 2016 Media certainly does not help us who live in the 'real' world! None of us can keep up with the images portrayed in the media. In my mind I would not be jealous of these men your gf is attracted to but rather concerned that she is unrealistic about what her life might look like in the future. What are her hopes and dreams and are they similar to yours? I think it is awesome that she told you about her crushes as it seems like she wants to be honest with you. That is something to be celebrated. Maybe you can start with asking your girlfriend why she wanted to tell you about her crushes. That might start an honest conversation about the future for the two of you. 1
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