WisdomOverEmotion Posted September 21, 2016 Posted September 21, 2016 It must of been about 2 months NC, maybe I'm over exaggerating. I stopped counting once I started moving on with my life. Anyway, my last story was about me dating someone new after going NC. It didn't work out with him. So shortly after that I found myself low again and wanting to break NC. But I stuck it out, I would remind myself of all the reason to be angry with him, and why I cannot continue to live as someone's side chick. I met someone new though, shortly after. Well she wasn't that new, I met her friends ages ago. (Yes I date men and women just so no one is confused with the him and hers ☺) It's been going great. Everyone has been commenting on how fresher I look, how happier I seem. This is a good sign this lady is doing something right for me! I know she wants this to last and so do I. I am in a official relationship now, I have opened up to her about my past. She has been very understanding and supportive. Anyway, cut the story short! xAP attempted to add me on social media again. I declined andshowed my gf. We were a little drunk and did giggle about this at the time! Few days later he messaged me. Asking if I'm okay. I messaged my gf and she told me to talk to him, as she thinks he owes me an apology.. Then he asked if I missed him. "Pfft" was my answer. I told him that it's over and I'm in a relationship now. He said he's happy for me. Then literally wrote an paragraph about how sorry he was for everything and all about him loving what we had. I said life has moved on now. And that was it. I have now blocked him from everything and a I've also changed my number now. Sorry my cutting the story short was not short! It's over and I don't have this little black cloud over my head anymore. Let's call it freedom ☺ And lesson well learnt for this youngster right here! 15
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