Roanfox Posted September 21, 2016 Posted September 21, 2016 Gotta try and keep it short guys, broke up a 2 year relationship with an amazing girl, we were almost made for each other. Even though everything was great most of the time, I always told her that sometime along the relationship we were gonna break up because I needed to have a second shot at singlehood. We went on to talk one day and starting making the decision we had to break up, we had been kinda cold with one another, and I just said it's time to make the decision. Thing is this relationship was great, she made me the better man and I helped her a lot along the way, we met great people together, she was great with my friends and me with hers, and we had great relationships with our families. Thing is we knew we needed the space from one another, but if I were 30 years old I know I would go all the way, but i'm way too young to commit right now. It has been one week and I talked to her, I've been thinking about things and want to clarify stuff, I don't wanna go back with her right now, I think I just owe it to the relationship to clarify everything. Should I cut off this reunion? She told me she was afraid of feeling bad after seeing me again, but was eager about seeing me. What should I do?
Blanco Posted September 21, 2016 Posted September 21, 2016 No, leave her alone and go onward with your supposedly needed second shot at single life. 7
Zahara Posted September 21, 2016 Posted September 21, 2016 Leave her alone. Let her grieve and move on from this. There is nothing to clarify because nothing you say will change the situation or her emotional well being. Stay NC with her. 2
SoThatHappened Posted September 21, 2016 Posted September 21, 2016 broke up a 2 year relationship with an amazing girl Why? I always told her that sometime along the relationship we were gonna break up because I needed to have a second shot at singlehood. Why? she made me the better man and I helped her a lot along the way, we met great people together, she was great with my friends and me with hers, and we had great relationships with our families. Sounds like very good reasons to break up... What should I do? Leave her alone and let her find someone else. 3
Author Roanfox Posted September 21, 2016 Author Posted September 21, 2016 (edited) No, leave her alone and go onward with your supposedly needed second shot at single life. I think I expressed myself badly (not a native english speaker), we knew both of us had to break up mostly because we both will make long term travels, but I would have not broke up right now If the relationship would not have gone in the direction it was going I would have not broke up with her, she told me she had been cold because she felt in a married life, which happened to me too. I think she wanted things to change and stay together, but I told her I was way too stressed out with the relation, which prompted her to tell me she thought I would be better if we broke up, moment where I said we should do it. She told me she had been feeling weird and asked me If I would have patience with her, which I had, but sometime afterwards I felt she just was fine with it. The passion existed, but it's hard with those mood swings, she was not smiling and being positive as she had been 90% of the relationship. I just wanted my relation to be like that all the time. It really had nothing to do about me wanting to chase other girls, bad expression from my side Edited September 21, 2016 by Roanfox Expressed myself poorly
aloneinaz Posted September 22, 2016 Posted September 22, 2016 If you decision is to end it, then end it. Leave her alone as mentioned. Don't keep contacting her because you want attention or are maybe feeling lonely. 1
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