Memoir Posted September 21, 2016 Posted September 21, 2016 Firstly thank you for reading this and any comments are appreciated. I was with my ex for 5 years since I was 19 everything was wonderful and thought he'd be my husband one day. 6 months ago is when we split he went in my house while I was out and took all his stuff and was later sent a message stated he needed space. He would often do this throughout the relationship which led to me having low self esteem and wondering what was wrong with me. He left me 3 months before I graduated from university so timing was terrible I was left with a 10,000 word dissertation to finish, 4 essays and 3 exams and healing a broken heart. He stated he wanted to go travelling etc but I know this is a lie you don't leave someone who has stuck with you for 5 years when they need you most to go and concentrate on yourself. The problem is I'm not moving on at all, I cry everyday and miss him intensely. I am consumed by the hurt and often want to tell him how he made me feel and how I almost suffered a nervous breakdown due to the intense amount of stress at the time. He was my best friend how could he do this? He recently started a Facebook account which I unfortunately saw on people you may know. He knew I had Facebook why would he not steer clear? He has Instagram that's why I have Facebook. I'm over thinking everything and just feel awful. I miss my best friend 1
Bialy Posted September 21, 2016 Posted September 21, 2016 A best friend isn't someone who would "need space" from you. A best friend isn't someone who would abandon you. A best friend isn't someone who is with you only when it's convenient for him. 2
snowangel97 Posted September 21, 2016 Posted September 21, 2016 I'm sorry you're going through this and it sounds like it was an intense relationship and breakup. Right now, you're grieving the end of the relationship and intense emotions are normal! The best thing to do is just to stay busy, connect with the world, and try to resume life as usual. However, if you think that what you're feeling is above and beyond normal break up emotions, maybe talking with someone would help? Do you have a counselor or a pastor you can talk to? Just a thought! I will be praying for you!
stillafool Posted September 21, 2016 Posted September 21, 2016 A best friend isn't someone who would "need space" from you. A best friend isn't someone who would abandon you. A best friend isn't someone who is with you only when it's convenient for him. I know. This is why I advise people to not make their partner their best friend unless they are married to them. When they break up with you you have no one to turn to.
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