Dasani Posted July 7, 2005 Posted July 7, 2005 So.. I was at work today and I saw this GORGEOUS girl walking around (I work in retail- clothes so I'm lucky to be in a place I see/help many many beautiful women shopping lol). I had to check her out lol.. so I did- while REALLY doing my work I walked past her- at a distance hanging the thing sI needed to be doing but glancing at her.. lo and behold she looked REALLY familiar to a girl I used to think was cute in middle school thru high school. (my 10 year reunion should be next year). She hadn't changed a lot... but its the just changes that happen as a woman gets older- more mature, handles herself better, dresses better etc... in any case she looked beautiful. But.. I am seeing quite a few old high school peeps I knew- in the last few months... I say hi to some, some say hi to me... some I dont say hi (either cause I just KNEW them (I had a class of 700)) too. This girl I didnt say Hi to...... lol.... but I asked one of my cashiers to just notice their name on thier license when checking their ID. It didnt end up happening- but I'm pretty sure it was her... SO.. question is.. what is a good way to approach someone who is an old class mate of yours... who you were and could still be attracted to? Should it just be the original- give my name- remember me? thing? or ask theirs and respond with you and I went to HS together etc? or does anyone have more a more original take?
nicetomeetu Posted July 7, 2005 Posted July 7, 2005 Personally, I think you have a pretty good opener with the whole high school thing. It opens the door for conversation about almost anything. Like what she has been up to, what's going on in her life, etc. And I don't think it would make her uncomfortable as opposed to if you were a total stranger or something. I think it's also a good opener for going out sometime. But will she be back? Does she come in often?
Author Dasani Posted July 7, 2005 Author Posted July 7, 2005 nah first time i saw her... is funny too... its just the "star struck" aspect to it. I'm all about going up to all my customers and asking if they would like/need/want/desire help lol. I am very friendly with them... I love looking women in the eyes- directly and not breaking contact while talking... not staring... just not looking all around the room.. give good attention... but this girl and one other girl who I ALSO had a crush on have now come into the store and I'm like... ooooo shes purdy - but I dont approach them- for help or for convo. sigh.. i need to get over this "thing" lol. I'm so very comfortable talkign to girls who are in a position near me.. like classes- or books stores, coffee shops yadda yadda... but the actual going up to someone I know- who I have had a crush on and they still look ... crushable... ::crickets chirping::: lol
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