essss Posted September 20, 2016 Posted September 20, 2016 Hi everyone, my ex and i broke up after 2 years together, 6 months ago. it was kinda a messy breakup and he was pretty mean to me in the end, but i was never bitter and wished him well (which he never responded to). shortly afterwards, i found out he started dating someone else. it hurt, but i continued on living my life, improving myself, etc. I projected my pain onto writing some articles online and i did not contact him at all during these 6 months recently, i found out he broke up with the other girl and he started to unblock me off of his social media accounts. i was a little surprised but i just continued on living, didn't really expect anything out of it. however, he just messaged me last night on facebook, asking how i was and i responded with a short "i'm good, how about you?" he proceeded to tell me how he wasn't doing so well and how he "stumbled" across my article about him and wanted to apologize for everything. he said he was really sorry, and that he has been diagnosed with depression and tried to kill himself twice. he went on about how sorry he was for hurting me and how i didn't deserve that and how at one point he loved me more than anything so he didn't think we would end up this way. i was polite about it but i didn't entertain all these emotional messages, i just said thanks for apologizing but i didn't need it anymore and i was happy and got my closure a long time back. he said he knew, and he did too but he still thought about me from time to time whenever he was at the places we went to, and if i ever "had the chance, he's always here". i ended the conversation, saying what happened happened and we can be better people from it. i wished him the best and told him to take care. and he said he really wished me all the best. i'm just a little confused about this, and i just wanted to know what he wanted and to maybe get some other people's perspective on the situation. why would he try to bring up memories from the past and tell me how he loved me more than anything and that at the end, he gave everything he could but it wasn't enough?? what do you think he wants?
SoThatHappened Posted September 20, 2016 Posted September 20, 2016 recently, i found out he broke up with the other girl ______________________ what do you think he wants? Fill in the blank...
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