lonelychick1 Posted September 20, 2016 Posted September 20, 2016 Hello. I am a girl, i can't say that i am pretty or attractive but i don't have a bad appearance though. And there is this guy at school. He is pretty cool and confident so i discover that i have feelings for him. He often teases me more than the other girls, he make me laugh every time, sometimes he looks deeply at my eyes but... i can't tell if he is into me. Once i saw him flirting with another girl and he was acting a lot different - he was making her compliments,he acted kind and a bit shy, he was trying to be as close as possible to her at any time... So is it that he likes me or he just has a playful personality? What do you think?
BoatsBoatsBoats Posted September 20, 2016 Posted September 20, 2016 Doesn't sound like much to go by to be honest. He could be into you but he could just as well not. However, you can change that! Start flirting with him and show interest (don't overdo it though) and he might take notice and pay more attention to you
smackie9 Posted September 20, 2016 Posted September 20, 2016 Take a look at your observation of his interaction of the other girl......that is how he acts when he is attracted to someone....that is your answer. 2
Author lonelychick1 Posted September 20, 2016 Author Posted September 20, 2016 I forgot to say that the girl he was flirting with wasn't into him and they didn't end as couple so I thought he might have changed his tactic. + I actually try to flirt with him. So I am really confused btw thank you for the answers.
smackie9 Posted September 20, 2016 Posted September 20, 2016 You are not getting it...when he likes someone, he behaves the way you saw with other girl. Regardless whether she likes him or not...he has a crush on her so he is going to keep trying. 2
kendahke Posted September 20, 2016 Posted September 20, 2016 Let's take a look at the observations you've made: Once i saw him flirting with another girl and he was acting a lot different - he was making her compliments,he acted kind and a bit shy, he was trying to be as close as possible to her at any time... Does he do this with you? From what you've written, he doesn't. About the closest you get is him looking in your eyes--otherwise, he treats you like a chum, a bud. He doesn't make himself vulnerable with you like he did with this other girl. When he begins acting with you the way he acts with this other girl, then you can safely ascertain that he's into you like that. Otherwise, he was just being a nice guy to you. You might want to figure out how to change your approach if you want the same sort of attention this other girl was receiving--that is, if he's of the mind to go there. He may just see you as someone in the friendzone, so be prepared for that.
mortensorchid Posted September 20, 2016 Posted September 20, 2016 He sounds like a player. He has a "routine" or "lines" with women to make them interested like he did with you, it sounds like to me.
preraph Posted September 21, 2016 Posted September 21, 2016 If he liked you that way you would know it, just as you know he liked that other girl that way. He's not afraid to show it. 1
Author lonelychick1 Posted September 21, 2016 Author Posted September 21, 2016 I know that he may doesn't like me but... I want to change that. I am thinking about him every day and every minute. I just feel that I should be with him by any costs. Are there any little trics that can make him pay more attention to me? I sound like a total lovesick weirdo but I need to know. PS: Today he cut a piece of my hair for an another girl who needs them for some kind of experiments. I was with my friends and we laughed so much and I gave him so much hair. But did he really get my hair for the other girl?
smackie9 Posted September 21, 2016 Posted September 21, 2016 When we have a crush on someone we tend to see a romantic action or hope it is through every interaction they have with us...in other words you are seeing things that are not really there. Life's lesson: you can't make someone want you or have feelings for you...either they do or they don't. If you want answers, just go up to him and ask him why he hasn't ask you out yet (in a hinting/joking way). Kind of like this: "wow you are giving me so much attention lately, I'm starting to wonder if you have a crush on me or something....why don't you just ask me out already."
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