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How soon is too soon?


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Are there universal rules when one is ready to go back into dating after breaking up with someone?

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When you no longer think about the other person...

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If you're still crying about the break-up or if you're still talking about your ex to family and friends ---- it's too soon to date.

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The same question I've been asking myself lately.

 

I'm still thinking about that person, not crying anymore, but still have something weighing me down. Pretty sure that I still love him.

 

But I've always used dating as a mean of distracting myself and hoping to fall in love with someone else to delete the feelings that haunt me.

 

Feel a temptation to do it now.

 

But I realize it's not a good idea at all.

 

If dating is used to heal and replace something broken with something shiny, it's too soon.

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No rule but yourself, your emotions. If you still think about ex, talk about him or so then may be you still have feeling for him. But it's normal to raise the feeling with other man after a breakup. And it's not a guilt, no rule for that ****. Just be honest with yourself :D

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When you know with certainty that you no longer want to be with the ex AND you don't hold any resentment which will make your new partner pay for the sins of the ex.

 

Resilient people can frequently move on quite quickly. Those who are sensitive may take longer.

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