DD2K16 Posted September 19, 2016 Posted September 19, 2016 Hi all, First post here, I am going through a bit of a nightmare from a recent breakup. I would love to get peoples opinions on what to do now. I have known my ex gf for about 7 years. she was with another guy at the time and when she finally split with her partner they had been together for 10 years. When she split we became very good friends and ended up spending lots of time together with other friends. After about 2 years we finally started dating each other. We lasted about 3 months until she dumped me. Her reasons being "she is not ready for a relationship right now. The problem here is that we were really good friends before for a long time. We have lots of common friends and we both belong to a gym that we have been going to for ages. I feel like I have lost the love of my life, and all my friends from the gym and the gym itself. It is not possible to go at different times because she runs the gym along with another person. I don't want to leave the gym and all my friends behind but I don't think I will ever get over her if I stop. Its a really hard predicament to be in. What should I do? I really don't want to find out she is seeing someone else because it will destroy me even though I know it will eventually happen. Thanks
mikeylo Posted September 19, 2016 Posted September 19, 2016 Go to another gym at the same time ! How difficult is that ? You get to keep your same time:laugh: It's not a job that you can't get the next day !
HumanMachine Posted September 19, 2016 Posted September 19, 2016 You either Continue going to the same gym and prolong your pain Or Change gym
Author DD2K16 Posted September 19, 2016 Author Posted September 19, 2016 Go to another gym at the same time ! How difficult is that ? You get to keep your same time:laugh: It's not a job that you can't get the next day ! Do you mean go to two gyms? This is so hard, I have lots of friends and good memories from that place. If only I had known this could happen and what I could potentially lose. I would never have got involved.
mikeylo Posted September 19, 2016 Posted September 19, 2016 Dude, you stop going to the gym where you see her. Join a new gym. What's so difficult here ? You can find some other hottie there. Gyms are the new meeting place. You get to sweat together before the actual sweat , if only she is there to sweat it out ! So many women do the dance there without a drop of sweat. Stay away from them. If a sweaty girl catches your eye, you get to see her at her worst. If she is attractive then, how would she look when dressed up ? Stop moaning. Get up and go to a new gym. You can meet your friends outside gym. Not a biggie. You can make new friends at the new gym.
Author DD2K16 Posted September 19, 2016 Author Posted September 19, 2016 Dude, you stop going to the gym where you see her. Join a new gym. What's so difficult here ? You can find some other hottie there. Gyms are the new meeting place. You get to sweat together before the actual sweat , if only she is there to sweat it out ! So many women do the dance there without a drop of sweat. Stay away from them. If a sweaty girl catches your eye, you get to see her at her worst. If she is attractive then, how would she look when dressed up ? Stop moaning. Get up and go to a new gym. You can meet your friends outside gym. Not a biggie. You can make new friends at the new gym. I should have said, this is a martial arts gym, not your conventional keep fit gym. We are a team and much of what we do is done together. Like a tribe. I know it's my choice to stay or go but on top of feeling rejected after a short term relationship this makes it 10 times harder. It would have been the perfect outket for me to get over this. Instead of is me having to possibly lose another piece of my life. Kill me now
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