asianrice Posted September 19, 2016 Posted September 19, 2016 I am going to an amusement park with this girl in my uni class next week. I usually see her once a week in class. She is an international student quite shy and not that good at English (maybe this is the problem). I text her like 2 messages every 2-3 days. She replies but they are only a few words. Eg) Since she likes cat I text her: good morning this cat looks like you (with a pic of a cute cat sleeping). Her replies: lol so cute. So I usually reply her back with a few words. We talked in class and during meetings for our group work. When she is unsure of something she won't ask me first. I am always the one who ask her and start the convo. I sometimes use flirty emojis to her too. Right now I can't stop guessing what is she thinking, does she even have a slight interest in me? Or at least know I am interested in her? When I asked her to the amusement park she said yes. Then she asked if we should ask our mutual friends to come as well (2 girls). I said sure, but of course I don't want to deep inside. Luckily the 2 girls can't come so it's just us two. Maybe she thinks I am just going to "hang out" with her instead of a date. We talk and laugh in class and she doesn't avoid me or anything. Should I give more hint it's a date? Or is she just pretending its not a date because she is not interested in me? Thanks
smudge21 Posted September 19, 2016 Posted September 19, 2016 She just sounds shy and unsure. When you said yeah to her bringing her friends, you pretty much let her turn this into a friendly hang out. You need to be honest with what you want, even if that means she says no. At least you'll know for sure. However that said, some people just like to take their time and get to know people rather than jumping straight into a relationship, especially when they barely know each other. I guess it comes down to whether you want to run this at her pace, or yours.
Author asianrice Posted September 19, 2016 Author Posted September 19, 2016 (edited) Thanks for the reply. I known her for a few months already but I am not in the friend zone. I said yes when she asked me if we should bring the 2 girls because I think she feels more comfortable this way, or she is just really dense not knowing I am asking her out. The uni semester will end in 5 more weeks so I wish to make a move now. She sounds pumped when we were deciding the date for the "hang out/ date". But again she never start the convo or say hi or anything. And I only text her like 2 messages every 2 days so we stay in touch while not bothering her. I am not jumping into a relationship. I am just hinting that I like her but she shows no sign of interest, not sure if she gets it. That's why I post here to ask for all your views and tips. Also after your reply it will be helpful to state why? eg) personal experience, you are a girl, common sense, something like that ... Thanks a lot ! Edited September 19, 2016 by asianrice
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