Sonic55 Posted September 18, 2016 Posted September 18, 2016 Hey guys I need your help again. So I went on a date with this girl about a year ago, but she was seeing some guy at the time so I didnt do anything. She was dating him until 2 months ago. I waited some time cause I don't wanna be the rebound guy, so I think its appropriate time now. I haven't been contacting her for the time she was seeing that guy cause I didn't want to make her troubles if he's jealous. I'm pretty sure she likes me, she has started convos on fb the last couple of tmes, she sends me love/kissing emojies etc etc you get the point. So any suggestions should I be direct and call her and indicate that I'm asking her on a date, or how should I approach this situation. Thanks
Author Sonic55 Posted September 18, 2016 Author Posted September 18, 2016 I forgot to mentone, she asked me out a couple of months ago, but we never defined a date I waited on her but she didn't call or texted me about it. Maybe she was waiting on me to act?
Shanex Posted September 18, 2016 Posted September 18, 2016 I forgot to mentone, she asked me out a couple of months ago, but we never defined a date I waited on her but she didn't call or texted me about it. Maybe she was waiting on me to act? So she asked you out when she was still dating the other guy or right when they separated/broke up? Sorry to ask but it's not very clear. A couple months ago and she broke up with her ex two months ago.. Did you fear being the rebound then? Ask her out, you've known her for a bit.. kissing and love emoji is enough a clue for you. She likes you.
Versacehottie Posted September 19, 2016 Posted September 19, 2016 Direct. (and don't explain the delay or overexplain yourself--you're allowed to hold back due to the two other situations--her bf, her breakup and sincerity; don't p&ssyfoot around; this is the time to be bolder etc). Be cautious tho--2 months may not be what you define as a rebound but it may be in her heart. You won't know til you know. Good luck.
smackie9 Posted September 19, 2016 Posted September 19, 2016 Be cautious....she might be looking for attention. be real ask her out on a date, let her know your intentions, communicate.
Author Sonic55 Posted September 19, 2016 Author Posted September 19, 2016 So she asked you out when she was still dating the other guy or right when they separated/broke up? Sorry to ask but it's not very clear. A couple months ago and she broke up with her ex two months ago.. Did you fear being the rebound then? Ask her out, you've known her for a bit.. kissing and love emoji is enough a clue for you. She likes you. Now that you mentioned it I was going trough the messages on fb, and I'm not sure but I think she was still with him. About 2-3 weeks later she posted picture showing some boob, so I posted cheeky comment about it and (she knows I'm kidding, we have the same sence of humour) and I messaged her saying sorry I had to post it, and she said oh don't worry I'm single now.
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