xraychick01 Posted September 17, 2016 Posted September 17, 2016 Together 5 years and lived together. Broke up for a month after 3 years and got back together. Just broke up almost 3 weeks ago. No contact-both of us. I'm devastated. When I'm with someone I tend to put my whole self into the relationship, but I don't mind. I love hard and with everything I have. I'm having a really hard time the past couple of days. I've cried so much. Much more than in the past couple of days than any other. I'm miserable. I'm trying to keep busy with friends etc and that does help. But all I can think about is him. I miss him so much. 1
mg4514 Posted September 17, 2016 Posted September 17, 2016 X-ray-you're going to have peaks and valleys. And some days are going to be worse than others. It's important for you to know that it's normal. Its gonna to take a long time. The feelings you have right now are so intense, so overwhelming, that you believe in your mind that it could not possibly be normal--That something must truly be wrong with you. Don't worry, you're normal, and you're going to be okay. 1
MetalGearSolid Posted September 17, 2016 Posted September 17, 2016 This is normal, especially in a long-term relationship like yours. Just remember that you're not alone; many, many people have been through, or are going through the same situation as you, and they all came out fine afterwards. Take some time to grief and let time heal, as it will surely do. At one point, you're going to be tired of being sad, and that is when you're on the road to recovery. 1
whatnot Posted September 17, 2016 Posted September 17, 2016 3 weeks after 5 years with it having already happened once. It may not be over. Though when it is over, it gets worse before it gets better. That could very well be where you are right now. Hang in there. Good luck
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