Does he ever care?

[JewelD]

This is the same bf from your thread "does he even care". If you don't think he cares and you're clearly not satisfied with the way he acts, why are you with him?

 

You probably need a bf who is local because you require more attention than he's giving.

[Satu]

It does seem that he doesn't care very much.

 

Do you want to be with someone who doesn't care very much?

 

 

Take care.

[Nicole10]

This is the same bf from your thread "does he even care". If you don't think he cares and you're clearly not satisfied with the way he acts, why are you with him?

 

You probably need a bf who is local because you require more attention than he's giving.

It is the same one. I am on the verge... deciding what to do. I posted more convo between us and people think he is serious. We got pretty serious about our future plans and I really want them to work out but cant understand, for example, something like this today. Someone has already told me that I am the one with issues (maybe I am, maybe I am high maintenance) but I just cant understand it. My friends have been checking in with me every few hours (this was probably the worst experience I had ever to go through).

[Ami1uwant]

To be fair...when he called how did you react and what did you say?? If you picked certain words it could have said to him I'm fine and I don't want to talk about it. Thus he will wait till you are ready to talk by texting or calling him.

[JewelD]

It is the same one. I am on the verge... deciding what to do. I posted more convo between us and people think he is serious. We got pretty serious about our future plans and I really want them to work out but cant understand, for example, something like this today. Someone has already told me that I am the one with issues (maybe I am, maybe I am high maintenance) but I just cant understand it. My friends have been checking in with me every few hours (this was probably the worst experience I had ever to go through).

 

I don't think any of that matters if you're not getting what you want out of the relationship. What he's doing might be perfectly acceptable to another woman but if it's not acceptable to you then don't deal with it.

 

You want more attention so you need to find a partner who is able to give you more. I think you're beating a dead horse with this guy. The amount of contact and communication you're getting with this guy is what he feels comfortable with and you're probably not going to get much more than that.

[Nicole10]

To be fair...when he called how did you react and what did you say?? If you picked certain words it could have said to him I'm fine and I don't want to talk about it. Thus he will wait till you are ready to talk by texting or calling him.

 

Well, I told him I was just leaving the emergency but that I was fine. However, not sure about the other people involved. Then, I asked him about few other issues and insurance and how it all works, which he explained very well and calmed me down. But that is all. And he hasnt been online much today which does mean he was busy but Idk. It is 10.30 now and nothing. Weird