She's mad I moved on ??

[M.a.r.s]

So me and my ex dated for 2 years... And even then we had our moments where we would decide to take a break.. She always blamed it on me ... Saying it was because I was too "childish" . By the way I think I'm very mature, I just have my moments where I like to joke around and have fun...who likes being serious all the time? But to get back to the point, we broke up about a month ago but we were still keeping in contact till a week ago ... She just started ignoring me then sent me a text saying she was done with me.. So I didn't reply and she called me late that night ... I don't know what for if she's done.. But I didn't answer anyway I just decided to leave her alone and move on , when she found this out through a mutual friend she started blowing up my phone non-stop ,when I didn't reply she sent me a text saying "you're probably talking to your girl" i guess my question is why all of a sudden is she wanting to talk ? Before she would give me the time or the day when I wanted to talk to her. Btw she blocked me on all social networks

Edited September 15, 2016 by M.a.r.s

[preraph]

She's looking for another validation that she made the right decision, and you seeing other women already would be that. Not that you shouldn't. Look, some breakups go through this period where no one is sure if the other is coming back. I've been there. Had other non-mad breakups and then when the big one for a bad reason came, I still wasn't positive we were finished.

[fromheart]

You walking away, and rightly so, has taken all the power away from her. Sometimes an insecure person will even act like they want you, just to cast you away and regain their power.

 

Also, it makes you attractive in their eyes. Keep walking, you're doing the right thing.

[aloneinaz]

I think the big thing here is you need to make a decision. If you're over her and want to move on, you need to stop all contact. Block her phone number or change yours. Block her on social media. You want her out of sight, out of mind.

 

You're describing a R/S that didn't work with breaks in it. Is it worth trying yet again knowing it will in all likelihood end the same way? Most of us veterans don't believe in recycling failed relationships over and over.

 

She seems like a drama queen. If I was done? I'd vanish like a fart in the wind. You don't owe her anything, especially responding to her attention seeking BS.